Hurt after decided to let go of what turned out to be just a fling

[GinaCB]

After just 2 months I realized things aren't seeming to go anywhere with this guy even though his words make me feel great and make me feel like we have a future his actions contradict everything he says. We spoke every single day for those 2 months yesterday I did not contact him and he didn't contact me either.

 

I guess my expectations were far too high but I kind of feel led on. I also think it wasn't a good idea for me to get involved with someone only a couple of months after I got out of a really bad relationship. Now I'm reminded of the hurt from that and now have to deal with the hurt from this. bummer.

[Frank2thepoint]

I'm sorry for your loss and at being deceived. Words do sound nice, but actions that support those words are even better. Also you are correct to not have jumped into another relationship so soon. You need time to heal, to think about the mistakes both of you made, and how to improve yourself. Just take it one day at a time, keep yourself busy, exercising helps, enjoy your hobbies, and talk with supportive people. Soon a week will pass, then a month, and before you know it, it is a new year.

[Seeker12]

You definitely needed, and need time to heal, even now. Jumping into a new relationship wasnt the best idea, as you overlooked the pain from the past, and filled that void with the new guy, who we all pin our hopes on! But for your own closure, straight up ask him what his intentions are, what he wants to do and why, itll either scare him away or make him stay, or make him respect you.