Tayla Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Ok, so you are just thinking with the girl appendages. I admire your tenacity yet its unwelcomed at this juncture. research Vagus Nerve - Gut instincts. then speak in an educated manner. The Topic is on this Ladys concern on her BF using Daddy in his speech towards her. Its deserves either a persons view point or advisal....Mine was given . She simply wants a non judgmental educated reasoning for his terminolgy. that of which I have none. 1
KeepCalmCarryOn Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 I went out with 2 guys who really liked that. It was kind of hot actually idk it's like submissive to me. 2
d0nnivain Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Um I don't think he's creepy or has issues. He only talks about it when we're sexual. All of these grown Ppl with such negative, childish, close minded answers. Everyone is different. I found nothing wrong with him wanting me to call him that I just wanted to know WHY. I figuredit may be because of the ahe difference & NO HE DOES NOT! Take care of me finacially or in anyway. I work for my own way in life. Why say such mean things to and about someone you don't even know. Smh. IM not the judge of anyone. God is, so don't be quick to judge please people. Thanks! It's a sex fetish thing as has been explained to you. It's not about the age difference. You could be older then him & he would still want this, although depending on how far into the lifestyle he is he may not be attracted to a woman who is not significantly younger than he is. If you are OK with it & it's consensual, great. Have a good time. Read up on it & see how far you are willing to take it. It's not truly about incest. If it bothers you, then you need to end things with him because you two are not sexually compatible. 1
Gloria25 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Sigmund Freud did a lot of studies and stuff on the connection between our parents and our sexuality you know...and, I do believe a connection is there. So, while some younger people may seek out older people cuz they are seeking that connection they may have missed out with their actual parents - or - in search of the "close" connection they may have had with their actual parents. As long as one party isn't taking advantage of the other, I guess people are gonna do what they do... So, in this case, I'm not surprised that there's a bit of name calling in the bedroom, but I don't know the whole "call me daddy" thing is kinda weird to me. If he would say like call me "big papi/daddy/papa", maybe that would be ok. I think it would have been more acceptable if it was the woman initiating the calling him "sexy daddy"... I mean, I'm Hispanic and I'd be ok with saying "papi", but then again "papi" is kinda like a pet name - doesn't have like a "daddy" feel to it. I was seeing a guy who called me "mama", but we were the same age group - actually he was like four years older than me and believed he was using it in the context where it was "hip" to call women "mama" (like "sexy mama"). So, I guess it depends on the two people involved and what works for them...also, it's the delivery I mean Rihanna calling out "rude boy" is sexy...
Gloria25 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 It's a sex fetish thing as has been explained to you. It's not about the age difference. You could be older then him & he would still want this, although depending on how far into the lifestyle he is he may not be attracted to a woman who is not significantly younger than he is. If you are OK with it & it's consensual, great. Have a good time. Read up on it & see how far you are willing to take it. It's not truly about incest. If it bothers you, then you need to end things with him because you two are not sexually compatible. She's 23 and he's 34, how is it "not" about the age difference? Look, if he has you dress up in pig-tails and grinds on a big teddy bear like Miley Skankus, then I think you'd have issues... But, then again, what guy doesn't have the "school girl" fantasy? But nah, if he has you doing a Miley, then that's where it crosses over into Creepworld...
d0nnivain Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 She's 23 and he's 34, how is it "not" about the age difference? Look, if he has you dress up in pig-tails and grinds on a big teddy bear like Miley Skankus, then I think you'd have issues... But, then again, what guy doesn't have the "school girl" fantasy? But nah, if he has you doing a Miley, then that's where it crosses over into Creepworld... It's a fetish. She could be a young looking 36 & this guy would still want this. It's a power game. Just because it's creepy for you, doesn't mean that some people don't enjoy it. I don't want to have anal sex but if somebody else does, that doesn't make them inherently evil or creepy. If one partner wants something in a relationship the other one is unwilling or unable to give, doesn't make it inherently wrong. It means those two people don't fit because they have different needs, wants & boundaries. As long as the behavior is legal & behind closed doors if the people involved are happy, let it be. 2
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