exhausted88 Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 Together for 7 yrs and a 2 yr old daughter together. Been broken up for 3 months. Ive been nothin but nice. Why is my ex so angry when he is the one that broke up with me.?
Author exhausted88 Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 We have been broken up for 3 months officially, we have a 2 year old daughter together. He broke up with me. Im always nice to him and sometimes he is nice but most of the time he is so mean and is still really angry at me for some unknown reason. The way I see it is when you break up you let go of all the problems since u don't have to deal with them anymore. I just don't understand why if he broke up with me, why is he the angry one?
singsparkles Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Together for 7 yrs and a 2 yr old daughter together. Been broken up for 3 months. Ive been nothin but nice. Why is my ex so angry when he is the one that broke up with me.? Exhausted88, You're not the only one. My ex broke up with me and is still furious with me after four months of being broken up because he thinks I've cheated on him and I didn't, and all I've done is beg for him back for 4 months straight. My question is, does he have a reason to be angry with you? did you guys have a falling out before the break up? There has to be a reason. I don't know why he would be so angry with you if not... I know it hurts, being with someone so long, and knowing they're upset with you... it makes you feel uneasy... but if you can try to communicate with him about it. If he doesn't want to communicate, I would leave it where it is and put your relationship in the past and just focus on your daughter. Because unfortunately we can't change people and their feelings. Hope things get better! xx
avocado1 Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Well I think there is obviously some unresolved emotions that he is attempting to let out. I don't know the details of your relationship- but maybe there was a lot of fighting or disagreements occurring throughout which left him with tons of built-up anger. Whatever the case, it seems like he could be taking out his anger on you for things that may have happened in the past. Just because you breakup does not mean that all the problems disappear and everyone is fine and dandy. The negative emotions will linger for a long, long time. At least they did for me. Since you have a daughter, continue to be civil for her sake.
Reels Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Yes there are always some issues, and endless questions. They remains unsolved. You don't have to bother much about it.
hockeydan Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 It's crazy how this happens, isn't it? My last few interactions with my ex have been cold and bordering on angry from her side. It's extremely hurtful since they already broke your heart and then they inflict more pain by acting angry/passive aggressive.
stillafool Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Is his anger about his daughter? I mean do arguments start because of things related to her? If not, you should ask him why is he angry and if it is only in relation to you. If he says yes ask him why and then tell him what you do is no longer his business unless it's related to your kid.
Kid_Charlemange Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Together for 7 yrs and a 2 yr old daughter together. Been broken up for 3 months. Ive been nothin but nice. Why is my ex so angry when he is the one that broke up with me.? Mine does the same thing. She cheated on me, I got past it, yet any attempts at just smoothing things over with her (the thought of reconciliation is a joke) just ticks her off even more. It could be guilt. It could just be that seeing you or hearing from you dredges up emotions, and he feels helpless, that the emotions are out of his control. So he lashes out at the source -- you. I'm pretty sure that's what motivates my ex. Well, that plus the fact that she is b*****t crazy.
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