los Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 Hey ppls. My ex gf ended it with me in early june, saying it was not working out for her(i call it commitment/abandonment issues caused by her ****ed up past), but said we could be good friends. At some point i told her being just friends was to much for me to handle right now. 1 1/2 month ago she texted me after 1 month of no contact initiated by me. I ended up answering her and we have been texting alot these weeks. Every day with her initiating most of the time. I still love this girl very deeply and would try to work things out if she wanted .. she knows that. Yet she keeps spilling details about her freaky sexlife(bdsm) with new older rich guy with nice car, old ex trying to win her back. At first i reacted and told her it was to much for me to hear about, but at some point i told her she is not my girl and i can't let it bother me. Talking about these other guys seems to be her fav topic. She clings to our friendship.. Saying she wants me in her life and that she felt lonely while we werent talking. And that she cares so much for me. She does not want to meet face to face.. I have tried to make it happen twice. This might have been more of a rant than anything else She is 25 me 30.. I love her deeply, but my head and heart feels messed up when dealing with her.. Does she not recognize that im missing her.. hurting? Is she using me as a doormat?
banini_jeque Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 I say if she wants to have a friendship with you, then she should be open to listening to the way you feel about the friendship. If she's not, and she can't respect how all of this is making you feel, then she's not a real friend.
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