quidproquo89 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Don't ever do that again. The way to go with women is to take shots with them as often and as early as possible. Once you get some volume in, your odds will improve. And forget about all that 'nice guy who respects women' crap right now. That won't help you at all. The woman has to be attracted to you. Volume, volume, volume. The fact that you are tall helps a lot. I would also say work on your career so you have some kind of financial security. That will help you with women in the future. this is the key to the whole thing. You can be as nice as anything but attraction is everything
Author Mannibalector Posted October 9, 2014 Author Posted October 9, 2014 If you have any traditional religious leanings, you might also start going to church because they tend to have lots of activities and mothers wanting to find a nice churchgoing guy for their daughters. If you're lucky, you might even get fixed up with a "wayward" daughter! Eh, I'm not really that religious. I kinda have my own ideas about how things work. You know how you can easily speak to a guy or an elderly lady. That doesn't seem awkward right?Well actually it's really no different. It's kind of hard to talk to anybody I don't know, unless they carry most of the conversation. I'm happy to talk to anyone if they're nice, but I'm lousy at starting up conversations. I live in a small town, like you. So I understand the feeling of being isolated and disconnected from the masses. Count your blessings firstly that you had some decent home schooling and you live in a nice spot right, country side, maybe?In my neighborhood there are more chickens than people, haha. I know how you feel and the fact you want to actively change that is great. Do you have hobbies? Can you join groups? If you get invited to something a event, party, gathering. I implore you to go. Accept every invite even if its out of your comfort zone. Just go. It will give you a great thing called 'opportunity'. Opportunity is chance. Chance is what will one day bring that special lady into your life!Yeah, I have several hobbies and am involved in a couple groups, but none of them offer much opportunity to meet women. I barely ever get invited anywhere either, except by my relatives who I honestly can't stand. Good luck and please keep ME updated Haha, well it might take me several years to find someone. I wish I could just suddenly become more sociable but by the looks of things it'll be a rather long road. I feel like I'd be fine if I just knew how to start.
quidproquo89 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 honestly just talk about anything that comes to mind like the weather, ask about their day, their job, what their weekend plans are, how there college course is going. Anything you know about them, ask a question, make an observation . Enjoy your hobbies, get out there and do your best to talk to people, good luck
normal person Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 honestly just talk about anything that comes to mind like the weather, ask about their day, their job, what their weekend plans are, how there college course is going. Anything you know about them, ask a question, make an observation . Enjoy your hobbies, get out there and do your best to talk to people, good luck I would be careful with this. While people do love to talk about themselves, you've got to make sure you play the card right. When someone wants to make smalltalk about weather, work, or something relatively trivial I can't help but thinking there's something better or more interesting that we could be discussing. You want to generate some feelings, interest, or intrigue. That'll make people want to be around you. You don't do that with smalltalk.
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