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Baaaa haaaa haaaa I was not fired! You are such a kidder alpha!

 

Another thing.......the gentleman does NOT work FOR the company I work for. His company is associated with my company.

 

So alpha, are you suggesting that I do not speak to him what-so-ever? That seems pretty rude don't you think? I mean I don't think the guy was in love with me or anything........you really think I should just shut him down all together? I mean I can't really do that. He comes to the office for business meetings and I'm the receptionist! It's not like I can avoid him.

 

bubbles

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Originally posted by Bubbles

He comes to the office for business meetings and I'm the receptionist! It's not like I can avoid him.

 

I did not say don't be friendly with him, I said don't be friends. There is a difference.

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So if he e-mails me I should ignore? and if he comes into the office it's "business as usual"?

 

I really want to know the right thing to do here. I am not a mean person.......(my downfall sometimes) but I guess some would argue that being too nice can add to head-aches huh?

 

bubbles

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Originally posted by Bubbles

So if he e-mails me I should ignore? and if he comes into the office it's "business as usual"?

 

I really want to know the right thing to do here. I am not a mean person.......(my downfall sometimes) but I guess some would argue that being too nice can add to head-aches huh?

 

bubbles

 

No, what Alphamale is saying, is for you to be diplomatic.

 

 

 

BTW, I was the one who said you got fired. ;)

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Well then.........BRONZEPEN! I was not fired you silly goose! tee, hee, heeeeee! they COULD'NT fire me! They LOVE ME here!!!

 

I have not heard from him today. Hopefully yesterdays communications were an attempt on HIS behalf to cover up the fact that he was rejected yet wanted to show me that there were no hard feelings? I am only assuming here but feel that I may be correct.

 

He's a big boy! He can look after himself I'm sure.

 

But, thank you again for yours and everyone else's help on this matter.......you guys are the best! :)

 

bubbles

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I am surprised that SuperFantastico did not post a responce here. I was hoping that he would offer his insight on the "friendship" thing :o

 

bubbles

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Originally posted by Bubbles

.......you guys are the best! :)

yes, we know that BUBBLES, but thanx for reminding us.

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