adrian77 Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 My friends tells me she had sex with her boyfriend in the bathroom at the mall. She is 45 and he is 48 and she tells us they went shopping and had sex in the family bathroom. (I think that's a large private one?). I'm not a prude but I feel like you have to have some limits especially at that age and being a mom. Is this a normal thing? I've done some crazy things but mostly in my 20's and never anything like that.
Diezel Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 (edited) Sounds more like you are jealous that other people in their 40's are willing to be adventurous. And what does being a mom have to do with it? Having kids automatically discards you from wanting your significant other? Edited October 4, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1
LoneIsland Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 (edited) It's pretty normal for people to do it anywhere as long as no one else was affected. Seems romantic to me, and what occurred ensures they would make a loving couple, at least for a while anyway. In my book at least such women are sexy. I had a female friend who reactive with disgust as OP did to a similar situation occurred in a train toilet. I put that down as jealousy. Edited October 4, 2014 by LoneIsland
Author adrian77 Posted October 4, 2014 Author Posted October 4, 2014 (edited) Jealousy? No. They are unatttactive. Also it's gross because it's a mall bathroom. Not clean. Edited October 4, 2014 by adrian77 1
LoneIsland Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Men who come on strong early are usually inexperienced and therefore unlikely to be playas. She went for it because well, there's not much time left in life. Maybe you will understand her better when you get to her age. By then your options will be severely restricted.
Diezel Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Jealousy? No. They are unatttactive. Also it's gross because it's a mall bathroom. Not clean. What does them being unattractive have to do with anything? Are you jealous because they can get it on whenever and wherever they want to? And maybe this is why you are "disgusted". At least they are trying. Have you ever done it in a hotel room? Probably just as "clean".
GemmaUK Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 I have a sudden urge for some retail therapy with my man... Drat! I don't actually have a man!
LoneIsland Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Jealousy? No. They are unatttactive. Also it's gross because it's a mall bathroom. Not clean. Unattractive ? They see each other as the most beautiful thing in the universe. Nothing gross will stop them. It's called love.
SoleMate Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 I'd recommend not listening to her describe her sex life. Maybe just end the conversation when she starts that kind of talk.
Author adrian77 Posted October 4, 2014 Author Posted October 4, 2014 The disgust I guess is an accumulation of what she was doing before this relationship. Going to guys house she met online and performing oral. Having sex with guys in public places that she just met that day or one other time. Thinking this is how she would get a boyfriend. Even one who refused to wear a condom she still kept talking to. You think that is all ok?
LoneIsland Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 The disgust I guess is an accumulation of what she was doing before this relationship. Going to guys house she met online and performing oral. Having sex with guys in public places that she just met that day or one other time. Thinking this is how she would get a boyfriend. Even one who refused to wear a condom she still kept talking to. You think that is all ok? It's OK if she achieves her goal. Goals usually come with a price. If you are unwilling to pay, or to risk, you'd achieve nothing. It gets to a point in everyone's life when she realises she can't take it with her. so she may as well be generous with it before it withers away. With generosity comes the reciprocation.
tpham18nm Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 (edited) I think that's nasty, in a way that I don't want to step in his/her fluids lol! I had sex in a Dillard's dressing room with my ex. That was hot! Edited October 4, 2014 by Gotpepsi 1
WhatIsLove2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 I think what she is does is her business. Just tell her you don't want to hear anymore stories.
CaliGypsy Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Anything between two consenting adults doesn't bother me in the least . You should just politely tell her this conversation is AB and you'll C your way out. ( paraphrasing )
Cristo Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 My friends tells me she had sex with her boyfriend in the bathroom at the mall. She is 45 and he is 48 and she tells us they went shopping and had sex in the family bathroom. (I think that's a large private one?). I'm not a prude but I feel like you have to have some limits especially at that age and being a mom. Is this a normal thing? I've done some crazy things but mostly in my 20's and never anything like that. Yes. Old people should not be doing those kinds of immature things. It's part of the reason why the younger generation is so immature and entitled: Because the older generation does not have any values themselves.
Gloria25 Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 Ummm, is this your "friend" who is seeing the married guy? Gee, won't he shell out the money for a motel/hotel already? Or, isn't she single/divorced, can't they do it at her place? I do think that once we reach a certain age, we look ridiculous doing certain things - I mean, I don't club like I used to. I'll go out to a restaurant/bar/lounge with a dance floor and when the music comes on, I'll go and shake my booty.. Adventurous sex? Let's just say that after a certain age, while I gather it goes o n (cuz I'm just in my 30's), blabbing about it to others is just tacky to me... Now, bathroom sex in a shopping mall? Again, tacky... Do that at a night club - where people are doing freaky stuff all over. I mean, imagine if kids or other decent people heard them going on. And yeah, there's the hygiene - I hate public bathrooms. I hope they did it standing up w/o leaning up or touching the walls.
dichotomy Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 (edited) Let me guess she is divorced? (maybe in the last few years). Lots of divorced folks - especially divorced women go a little wild with the sex after a long difficult marriage. They do act like 20 year olds often (divorced folks), and as long as they are not ignoring their kids -or the kids know what they are doing - they can do as they please - life is short. As long as they live their relationships honestly and hurt no one. I will go further than this - i wish married folks in their 40's would occasionally do some crazy 20 something acts together like this with their spouses, maybe their would be less divorce. Edited October 5, 2014 by dichotomy
guest569 Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 I dont see that as adventurous or romantic haha.. Public toilets are so gross..
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