twinkie0 Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 I''m gonna try to be reaaally short here. Super long posts make me yawn. Big time in love, she dumps me out of nowhere and won't say why. I asked her friends -once- if there was someone else involved and they denied it (plus, we have a lot of close people in common, I really don't think she would've pulled off dating someone else without me noticing). I tried to get back together, we went out again like four times over the last year. Had a fight then made up but even though she kept talking/texting with me quite often she refused to see me. Couple months later, she found out I asked her friends about her and got really pissed, like I stalked her. Told her I only asked once because she wouldnt tell me etc, basically explained myself and she got it. I asked her about us about a month ago and she said she couldn't talk about it because she was dealing with personal stuff. I felt like she was stringing me along. I meet this other girl. I feel over a year of waiting is long enough so we go out. Really sweet girl, my friends love her. But then the first girl says she wants to give it another shot. I figured she found out about new girl and got jealous. But apparently she really has no clue. All of a sudden, she wants an answer. I tell her it's not fair that I had to wait and she won't. I love her but I don't know if she's really changed. It's all quite complicated, but I don't want this post to be too long. Check past posts for better understanding if you can. I'm really confused. My friends don't want me to get back with her, but I know they respect my decisions, even when they completely disagree. New girls is cool and I feel like I should give it a chance. But obviusly my feelings for the other girl are a lot stronger. Any advice?
Conners Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Listen to your friends. I wouldn't get back with her. There's a huge chance she does know about the new girl you are dating, girls have unbelievable stalking potential sometimes and have their ways of knowing. She doesn't love you, if she did she would of been with you. She probably did dump you because she wanted to explore other options and now your her safety net to fall back on. Take a chance and move on with this new girl. 2
No Limit Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Dude, the old one will kick you to the curb the moment another one arrives. Brush her off and give new girl a shot.
Haerts Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Well, if you still have strong feelings for that girl like you said, then maybe you should give yourself sometime and then try a new relationship with a different girl. I'm afraid you'll use the new girl in order to forget the other one, or expect that girl to be like the other one, and that's not fair to her at all. If you're not ready/open for a new relationship, then don't involve other people in your own problems; it will only be bad for you, and even worse for that new girl. I'd say, give the new girl a shot, but only do that if you're sure that's what you want. If you're not, then don't.
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