Trr Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Hi regret143, That was my post that was deleted - I reread it later and didn't like it. What kinds of things did you talk about at your MC session?
Author regret143 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 You mean things she wanted kept quiet so she would come out smelling like a rose?????? not that. some things are embarrassing to talk about, so I need to let her mention, as she feels confortable.
Author regret143 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 I had 2 sessions already. The first was sour. The second, was better. And we had some homework in between. In the end the highlights are: We learned what each other need. She needs support/encouragement and help with house chores while I need appreciation and sex. We found this during the homework, with some sort of point system. While I scored 10 out of 12 for need sex, she scored 1 out of 12. According to her, it is because I am not meeting her needs, therefore I don't make her want sex. But how I see it, is she just doesnt enjoy sex. Never did never will. Have always done as a "favor", maybe? I was really down about it.
oldshirt Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 I had 2 sessions already. The first was sour. The second, was better. And we had some homework in between. In the end the highlights are: We learned what each other need. She needs support/encouragement and help with house chores while I need appreciation and sex. We found this during the homework, with some sort of point system. While I scored 10 out of 12 for need sex, she scored 1 out of 12. According to her, it is because I am not meeting her needs, therefore I don't make her want sex. But how I see it, is she just doesnt enjoy sex. Never did never will. Have always done as a "favor", maybe? I was really down about it. So this other man was sneaking into your house and doing the dishes, laundry and mopping the floor and that's what got her all hot for him? 1
oldshirt Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 not that. some things are embarrassing to talk about, so I need to let her mention, as she feels confortable. You aren't getting it. There are things she doesn't want to talk about because it will make her look bad and look and feel slutty. She wants you to take the fall for everything bad happening here and to come out smelling like a rose and without any dirt on her hands.
Author regret143 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 So this other man was sneaking into your house and doing the dishes, laundry and mopping the floor and that's what got her all hot for him? Attention he listened to her. And with him she didnt have to cook or do chores. They only eat out, he probably has a maid and specially, NO KIDS.
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