Electric Boogaloo Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Yesterday on campus, I went up to a girl who was by herself and I had a 10-20 minute conversation with her. It was the first time I met her. She seemed very nice and all. After the conversation, it was almost time for our classes. I told her "we should keep in touch" and she said "yeah we should" then she took out her phone. I gave her my number and she texted me so I can get her number. Later that day, she texted me about her going to make her engagement ring smaller, so I knew she has a fiance. She texted me a lot after that also. I know what I'm doing is very wrong but I can't resist her. She even agreed to play pool with me during the weeks. Details on her fiance: He just deployed to the Marine Corp. Details on her: Nice, pretty, wears booty jean shorts all the time.
No Limit Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Details on her: Nice, pretty, wears booty jean shorts all the time. Sounds like marriage material. Do the sensible thing; screw her at her place, get her cellphone, send her fiance a picture of you and sorry and that he better not marry a cheating slut and get tested for STDs afterwards. Have fun. 2
Author Electric Boogaloo Posted October 3, 2014 Author Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like marriage material. Do the sensible thing; screw her at her place, get her cellphone, send her fiance a picture of you and sorry and that he better not marry a cheating slut and get tested for STDs afterwards. Have fun. You serious??
boilingpoint Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like marriage material. Do the sensible thing; screw her at her place, get her cellphone, send her fiance a picture of you and sorry and that he better not marry a cheating slut and get tested for STDs afterwards. Have fun. lol. I love this. If you're right and she's up for it then yeah, definitely screw her as much as possible and wear protection... not sure about messaging the husband part, but you'd be doing everyone a favour.
Toodaloo Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 You serious?? I wasn't going to be quite so blunt but was going to say basically the same thing. She is engaged... She is chasing after other men, you were a random stranger... So wrong in so many ways, on so many levels. Put her down and walk away. Don't bother with the shag or STD. Its more hassle than its worth by the sounds of things... 1
Author Electric Boogaloo Posted October 3, 2014 Author Posted October 3, 2014 I wasn't going to be quite so blunt but was going to say basically the same thing. She is engaged... She is chasing after other men, you were a random stranger... So wrong in so many ways, on so many levels. Put her down and walk away. Don't bother with the shag or STD. Its more hassle than its worth by the sounds of things... i can't resist her
d0nnivain Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 She agreed to play pool with Electric Boogaloo not have sex with him on the pool table. While I agree she is playing with fire & it's very easy to cheat on a deployed FI, for right now she could just be dumb enough to think that Electric Boogaloo simply wants to be her friend. Electric Boogaloo since your fascination seems to be with her looks & specifically how she looks in shorts, it doesn't sound to me like deep & meaningful is what you are after. FWIW you can resist her. You just don't want to. 3
Mrin Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like such a great idea. Marines are such understanding, sharing, non-violent people... I'm sure he wouldn't mind you keeping his fiancé warm while he's on deployment killing people. What could possibly go wrong? Let us know how that works out for you. /sarcasm 3
Toodaloo Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 i can't resist her If you were one of my dogs I would shout "drop it" then grab you by the scruff of the neck and drag you away... Read Mrin's post... There are other girls who are single and look good in shorts... Stop chasing women who are with other men. Its really not on. 2
carhill Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 OP, sounds familiar. Here's a blast from the past: My first unbeknownst MW occurred when I was 19 and she was 17, a nice young lady (I thought!) who was the sister of one of my cruising buddies. We started hanging out at her parents house, cruising together, even went to the races a few times. All the typical innocent boy/girl stuff (no sex!). About a year later I found out she had a boyfriend in the military and they were engaged! Of course, no one ever told me! Ha, I still have the leather belt she made for me in school craft shop which has the name of my then prime ride (one of my first vintage cars) engraved into it and she did a really good job too! That's how life goes. Just roll with it. Myself, I didn't learn well enough from that early lesson and later got embroiled with a real zinger of a MW who also was less than truthful about her marital status. Must be something in the water around here. Tip: Engaged girls and married women can 'like' a lot of guys besides their finance or spouse. It's fun for them. If you want to play that game, don't take it seriously. Just have fun. Don't consider them for serious relationships. They're already in one. Good luck!
Omei Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like marriage material. Do the sensible thing; screw her at her place, get her cellphone, send her fiance a picture of you and sorry and that he better not marry a cheating slut and get tested for STDs afterwards. Have fun. Hahaha! Love this post. Poor guy asked the wrong girl =[ Too many men off doing duty get mistreated by their partners boooo. 1
d0nnivain Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like such a great idea. Marines are such understanding, sharing, non-violent people... I'm sure he wouldn't mind you keeping his fiancé warm while he's on deployment killing people. What could possibly go wrong? Let us know how that works out for you. /sarcasm Love it & understand the sarcasm. Notwithstanding, DH is a Marine Veteran. Most are peaceful people because better than most, they understand the true price of violence. That said, I wouldn't suggest pi$$ing one off by sleeping with his GF /FI. Marines don't have friends; they have brothers who are willing to die for them. 1
CaliGuy Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Funny thing is, when I was in the Marine Corps, this was rampant. Men, either engaged or married, would be deployed and their wives would "play". Oh this is such great long term marriage material, this woman. In my position, I'd do what very few men would do -- and tell her fiance.... She didn't say she was engaged until AFTER she exchanged numbers. Did you even tell her "Oh I am sorry, I didn't know you were engaged. Didn't mean to throw a rock at your wedding..." or something of that nature. Do the RIGHT thing here, not the wrong thing, as some have proposed. Morality. Ethics. Two things this country seems to be in short supply of. 4
boilingpoint Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Funny thing is, when I was in the Marine Corps, this was rampant. Men, either engaged or married, would be deployed and their wives would "play". Oh this is such great long term marriage material, this woman. In my position, I'd do what very few men would do -- and tell her fiance.... She didn't say she was engaged until AFTER she exchanged numbers. Did you even tell her "Oh I am sorry, I didn't know you were engaged. Didn't mean to throw a rock at your wedding..." or something of that nature. Do the RIGHT thing here, not the wrong thing, as some have proposed. Morality. Ethics. Two things this country seems to be in short supply of. What's with all the moralising? Why should OP deny himself for someone he has never met? If it was his friend ok, I get it, don't go there... If OP decides to go for it, he can tell the fiance if he chooses and wants to help a guy out, but why not sleep with her regardless? As long as this woman doesn't know OP's last name or where he frequents (if she does, be careful OP) then why should OP care? It's none of his business...
CaliGuy Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 What's with all the moralising? Why should OP deny himself for someone he has never met? If it was his friend ok, I get it, don't go there... If OP decides to go for it, he can tell the fiance if he chooses and wants to help a guy out, but why not sleep with her regardless? As long as this woman doesn't know OP's last name or where he frequents (if she does, be careful OP) then why should OP care? It's none of his business... *rolleyes* She is engaged to be married. How'd you feel if your fiance is out boinking some strange guy? Would you accept that? If this was my fiance and this was going on, she wouldn't be my fiance. PERIOD. Why the moralizing? Because this country is sinking further into despair when people without morals or ethics accept this kind of behavior as "tolerable" and just. Next thing you know, people who think this is acceptable will start saying child pornography is also OK. Where's the line in the sand, folks? I'm sorry your parents didn't pass onto you the "good" gene, but this is getting ridiculous. 1
leavesonautumn Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 If you were one of my dogs I would shout "drop it" then grab you by the scruff of the neck and drag you away... Read Mrin's post... There are other girls who are single and look good in shorts... Stop chasing women who are with other men. Its really not on. :lmao: I feel like this should become a thing. Even if this girl is just friendly and not looking to have a side piece while her fiance is away for months at a time, you're still setting yourself up for some hurt OP! 2
mammasita Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like her man picked a winner *roll eyes* I'd steer clear. Next thing you know, you're in love asking for advice because you never meant for this to happen blah blah blah. Cluster **** waiting to happen. Don't do it!!!!! 2
CaliGuy Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like her man picked a winner *roll eyes* I'd steer clear. Next thing you know, you're in love asking for advice because you never meant for this to happen blah blah blah. Cluster **** waiting to happen. Don't do it!!!!! Not to mention if she'd cheat on her fiance, she'll cheat on him too. lol. 2
boilingpoint Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 *rolleyes* She is engaged to be married. How'd you feel if your fiance is out boinking some strange guy? Would you accept that? If this was my fiance and this was going on, she wouldn't be my fiance. PERIOD. Why the moralizing? Because this country is sinking further into despair when people without morals or ethics accept this kind of behavior as "tolerable" and just. Next thing you know, people who think this is acceptable will start saying child pornography is also OK. Where's the line in the sand, folks? I'm sorry your parents didn't pass onto you the "good" gene, but this is getting ridiculous. What is 'good' and 'bad' is a matter of opinion here - OP is choosing whether he wants to sleep with someone who isn't even married yet. It's got nothing to do with child porn or whatever other moral strawman arguments you have there. If my fiance slept with another guy and I found out, I'd thank my lucky stars I found out before the wedding and would tell all invited folk that the marriage is OFF. Again, this has nothing to do with OP and I am offering advice to him... not the fiance. I will say that OP needs to cover his ass though. You don't want this coming back to haunt you.
Mrin Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Love it & understand the sarcasm. Notwithstanding, DH is a Marine Veteran. Most are peaceful people because better than most, they understand the true price of violence. That said, I wouldn't suggest pi$$ing one off by sleeping with his GF /FI. Marines don't have friends; they have brothers who are willing to die for them. Heh! Ya, didn't mean to besmirch the reputation of Marines. I just found it almost comical that the OP was looking to shag a Marine's lady since on the bada$$ scale, Marines fall somewhere in between Batman and the honey badger. ;-) 1
CaliGuy Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 What is 'good' and 'bad' is a matter of opinion here Wrong. Let me educate you my friend: mo·ral·i·ty Principles concerning the distinction between right and wrong or good and bad behavior. eth·i·cal of or relating to moral principles or the branch of knowledge dealing with these. You are basing what is right or wrong in your own opinion, when I am telling that both morally and ethically, this is WRONG because she is engaged. Not "single". She has committed herself to one man. Disregarding her commitment to marriage is both unethical and immoral. - OP is choosing whether he wants to sleep with someone who isn't even married yet. It's got nothing to do with child porn or whatever other moral strawman arguments you have there. See above. Stop being myopic. If my fiance slept with another guy and I found out, I'd thank my lucky stars I found out before the wedding and would tell all invited folk that the marriage is OFF. Again, this has nothing to do with OP and I am offering advice to him... not the fiance. I will say that OP needs to cover his ass though. You don't want this coming back to haunt you. As a former Marine myself, if I found out this was going on and she had slept with him, I'd beat his arse and I'd dump her. I wouldn't kill him, but I'd beat him good enough that he'd think twice before ever doing that again. The last thing you want, my friend, is to p*ss off a Marine.... 1
CaliGuy Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Heh! Ya, didn't mean to besmirch the reputation of Marines. I just found it almost comical that the OP was looking to shag a Marine's lady since on the bada$$ scale, Marines fall somewhere in between Batman and the honey badger. ;-) We are and yes, thank you for the compliment! Don't frack with Marines.... we have low tolerance for people who have no line of distinction between right and wrong. Semper Fi....
boilingpoint Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Wrong. Let me educate you my friend: mo·ral·i·ty Principles concerning the distinction between right and wrong or good and bad behavior. eth·i·cal of or relating to moral principles or the branch of knowledge dealing with these. You are basing what is right or wrong in your own opinion, when I am telling that both morally and ethically, this is WRONG because she is engaged. Not "single". She has committed herself to one man. Disregarding her commitment to marriage is both unethical and immoral. See above. Stop being myopic. As a former Marine myself, if I found out this was going on and she had slept with him, I'd beat his arse and I'd dump her. I wouldn't kill him, but I'd beat him good enough that he'd think twice before ever doing that again. The last thing you want, my friend, is to p*ss off a Marine.... You haven't educated me one bit so get off your high horse my friend. Thanks. You've just told me i'm 'wrong' with no real arguments other than she's 'engaged' and not to 'piss off a marine'. Ooooh ok. Great... Like I said her 'commitment to one man' is her responsibility. I'll also add she only claims to be engaged (who knows what games she's playing with OP) and if she is truly engaged then she obviously doesn't take it very seriously - guess what, there's a good chance she's been sleeping with other men, so probably won't make a difference what OP does. So all this morality crap your spewing is really just your own feelings and preconceptions on the subject... and this isn't about you. I'm just advising OP to not worry about all that BS and have some fun.
movingonnow1 Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 In my opinion man, I never go for taken girls. Why? Unnecessary drama and I'm hurting someone else (the boyfriend). I know you don't know him nor do most people care, but having been in the shoes of the guy who has had his heart ripped out over cheating, I just think that it would be hypocritical of me to contribute that to someone else. With that said, if you do it, I don't judge you nor am I going to say you are wrong. My only thought is that there is tons and tons of single girls out there, why are you going to go and be the guy who sleeps with this girl? Chances are this chick is going to go off with some other dude and bang him too but at a very least it doesn't have to be you.
CaliGuy Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 You haven't educated me one bit so get off your high horse my friend. Thanks. Ah, I didn't knock you down far enough. If you're throwing the gauntlett down, CaliGuy is the last guy you want to mess with.... You've just told me i'm 'wrong' with no real arguments other than she's 'engaged' and not to 'piss off a marine'. Ooooh ok. Great... What part of "ENGAGED" do you not understand? Being engaged means you have PROMISED yourself to someone. Is it that you simply cannot understand logic, honor and integrity or you refuse to believe it? Like I said her 'commitment to one man' is her responsibility. I'll also add she only claims to be engaged (who knows what games she's playing with OP) and if she is truly engaged then she obviously doesn't take it very seriously - guess what, there's a good chance she's been sleeping with other men, so probably won't make a difference what OP does. Ok my small-minded friend, if this was YOUR fiance, how you would you feel? I'm willing to bet you would be upset. If she feels the engagement means NOTHING to her, then her obligation is to her fiance to tell him that so he can take is ring back and let her "whore" herself out to any schmuck stupid enough to bed her. Maybe you're next in line? So all this morality crap your spewing is really just your own feelings and preconceptions on the subject... and this isn't about you. I'm just advising OP to not worry about all that BS and have some fun. Ah, fun stuff. No, what you do not understand is logic, integrity, honesty, etc. The same CRAP this "NEXGEN" group of immoral retards refuse to buy into. Well, no. They buy into it when their wife is banging some other dude. Then all the sudden they realize INTEGRITY, HONESTY, etc is not some hocus pocus crap, but it means far more than most with an IQ <100. Understand? You cannot buy integrity my friend. That only comes with a pure heart that ANY adulterer can NEVER, EVER achieve.
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