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;) well heres my story read this post http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/491097-its-been-2-months-since-we-broke-up-we-spoke-update

 

But now she texts me everyday and wants me back i have told her i already been accepted things and i have moved on. I even told her we can be friend i dont want anything more because what u did really makes me can't trust u on a girlfriend level , But apart from that i am speaking to a new girl we are taking it slow and i am happy that i have offically moved on from my ex all she does now is cry to me, and feed me breadcrumbs which i am not falling for so thank to this forums i have healed well and i didnt think i would heal so fast and easy

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Good for you! That's really good news.

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Im happy for you, good job:)

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Thank u guys i really couldnt have done it without u guys

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Yeah dude! Looking good! But you still need to continue to make positive changes in your life! I'm really happy about how this is turning out for you, even thought you really suck at No Contact rule! Things are looking good for you!

 

 

It's good that you're getting with a new girl and it's awesome that she understands what you went through and she's sticking it out with you and taking it slow. Now, THAT'S a woman! A girl that will stick by your side no matter what and work issues out with you rather than running for the hills.

 

 

If I were you, I would take her away for the weekend and make it all about her. I would do all the things she likes and is interested it. Take her shopping at a vintage store, or go to an Art museum if that's her interest, or to a fall festival somewhere. Then, after a full day with her, take her out to a nice restaurant. No McDonalds meal deal here! Somewhere nice!

 

 

If she asks why you're doing all if this just tell her, "Look, you got with me knowing that I was dealing with a lot of crap and you didn't go running for the hills, you struck it out with me when you didn't have to. This is a way of saying thank you."

 

 

Trust me on this one. You can have the most mind blowing sex with this girl. But, the one thing that would stick out MORE with this girl is a day that you dedicated to her, did the things you knew she would enjoy and was attentive enough to know what she WOULD enjoy doing. She's going to remember that and will always be more fond of that memory than mind blowing sex.

 

 

Keep making positive changes!

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Yeah dude! Looking good! But you still need to continue to make positive changes in your life! I'm really happy about how this is turning out for you, even thought you really suck at No Contact rule! Things are looking good for you!

 

 

It's good that you're getting with a new girl and it's awesome that she understands what you went through and she's sticking it out with you and taking it slow. Now, THAT'S a woman! A girl that will stick by your side no matter what and work issues out with you rather than running for the hills.

 

 

If I were you, I would take her away for the weekend and make it all about her. I would do all the things she likes and is interested it. Take her shopping at a vintage store, or go to an Art museum if that's her interest, or to a fall festival somewhere. Then, after a full day with her, take her out to a nice restaurant. No McDonalds meal deal here! Somewhere nice!

 

 

If she asks why you're doing all if this just tell her, "Look, you got with me knowing that I was dealing with a lot of crap and you didn't go running for the hills, you struck it out with me when you didn't have to. This is a way of saying thank you."

 

 

Trust me on this one. You can have the most mind blowing sex with this girl. But, the one thing that would stick out MORE with this girl is a day that you dedicated to her, did the things you knew she would enjoy and was attentive enough to know what she WOULD enjoy doing. She's going to remember that and will always be more fond of that memory than mind blowing sex.

 

 

Keep making positive changes!

 

 

I already planned a day out for ous next week and mc donalds HAHA would never take a girl there for a date their lml but thanks man. I will continue to make positive changes ! Its a must ;) Thanks once again Chi!

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This wouldnt have been possible without u guysInstagram thank u once again

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Good for you.

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