Allumere Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Although I am not a hardcore NC person, this is an example of why things like blocking her number, FB, Instagram etc. is useful. You are too emotional wrecked to communicate with her at the moment. If you hadn't received all the text etc. you wouldn't have given in. For F#$% sakes, don't beat yourself up...there is nothing to feel bad about here...you reaction is normal, the pain is normal, giving in is normal. It may be best for you to tell her that communication needs to cease for the near term so each of you has time to adjust to all the changes, heal, whatever. At this point in time you are not capable of being friends and communicating without expectations.
Author whatdoido123 Posted October 7, 2014 Author Posted October 7, 2014 i understand NC and everything but at the same time i want to still get back with my ex. Its difficult to explain but i feel like my ex is what keep me motivated to go to work and she means everything to me. Even though she has a new bf doesn't really mean anything at this point. I been with her for 4 years now and her new BF and her are just starting at. I heard that they are getting serious though a co-worker. Idk if its for reals but i guess rumours are spreading about them two. What hurts the most is i don't even know if they had sex yet and if i found out they been sleeping together that would hurt me the most.
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