irc333 Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 (edited) I met this woman online, she's VERY local. On POF, we talked on the phone the night before yesterday, I asked about getting together, and she said she wanted to "talk more" before doing so.. After that conversation, today I call her , it's still day light out and she said she was just starting her chores. And I said, "Oh okay, you want me to call you back later?" Then she says, "Maybe (pause)...after dark." "Maybe"? I'm not sure if I'm reading into this too much or not, but that response just rubs me the wrong way. I nice, "Sure, call me after dark" would convince me of her enthusiasm of wanting to get to know...but that was quite an off color response. Again, reading too much into it or no? Edited October 2, 2014 by irc333
Maleficent Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 After dark? What is she, a vampire? All joking aside, you can't blame a woman for being skittish about meeting a stranger in person. Don't read too much into it for now. Keep talking to her and see how it goes. 1
sillyanswer Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Again, reading too much into it or no? You'll find out when you call her.
Author irc333 Posted October 2, 2014 Author Posted October 2, 2014 After dark? What is she, a vampire? All joking aside, you can't blame a woman for being skittish about meeting a stranger in person. Don't read too much into it for now. Keep talking to her and see how it goes. Meh, her initial reaction "Maybe" was kind of off putting. She seemed rather short with me. Just the vibe I got. Esp. with the "Maybe" comment.
HappyLove Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 You have a hard time even meeting women in your area right? So just go ahead and call later and talk more. Not everyone is an OLDing vet who meets strangers instantly. I'd keep the convo short.
almond Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 You called her, and she advised she was just starting her chores. I would assume her response of "maybe" was a "yes, maybe another time would be better." You asked if you should call her back, she responded and asked you to call her back that night. Writing people off for something this small is pretty silly, especially when it is likely your attitude influencing your interpretation. Call her later, see how it goes...and chill out for goodness sakes! 2
Mascara Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 She was just trying to think of when. As in "maybe 5pm, maybe 6pm, I'm thinking" 2
organizedchaos Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 I met this woman online, she's VERY local. On POF, we talked on the phone the night before yesterday, I asked about getting together, and she said she wanted to "talk more" before doing so.. After that conversation, today I call her , it's still day light out and she said she was just starting her chores. And I said, "Oh okay, you want me to call you back later?" Then she says, "Maybe (pause)...after dark." "Maybe"? I'm not sure if I'm reading into this too much or not, but that response just rubs me the wrong way. I nice, "Sure, call me after dark" would convince me of her enthusiasm of wanting to get to know...but that was quite an off color response. Again, reading too much into it or no? You, reading too much in to something? Ha, ha. Yes. You are. This is doomed already.
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