heybecky Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 (edited) I talked to and dated this guy for several months... however, we didn't live close to each other and our work schedules didn't always give us the opportunity to see each other. Things were going really well and we even spoke of future plans. The tricky part is that we only actually hung out twice during our 3-4 months of talking every single day, other than inside of school and seeing each other briefly at work. We recently went out together for a few hours and what I thought was going really well, ended really easily. He texted me the next morning and told me that it was best for us to just be friends and that we were just different people with different personalities. I was deeply saddened because I felt I wasn't given the chance and that he didn't really put in an effort to get to know me on a face-to-face basis. My response may not have been the best one, but I laid it all out there. I told him that I didnt feel it was given a chance and that he didn't even get to know who I was. About a week later he explained to me that he felt like he was saying all the wrong things, that he understood everything I was saying and that maybe his life was just up in the air in general. He is moving closer soon and does have a lot on his plate and just recently had to move back in with his parents until his house gets built and I've noticed a change in him ever since. We still text every now and then and communicate frequently through snapchat and the occasional social media. When he ended "it" he was very stuck on wanting to remain friends and not wanting that to ruin a friendship and even reached out to me a week later. He frequently snapchats me and we've briefly texted a few times, however when Ive "dumped" people, I don't keep any communication. I can't help but hold onto the tiny bit of hope that we will remain friends and he will actually get to know me and maybe give it a chance once he moves here. I also can't help but think that he tries to make me jealous via social media which I don't understand because he dumped me! Edited October 11, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
d0nnivain Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 I don't see any hope for a romance here. You are still on two different schedules. He's not into this. Accept his friendship if you like but assume there will never be anything more.
caplion Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 Hi. I have to agree with dOnnivain. I'll add that I don't think he's trying to make you jealous via social media...he's just living his life. I don't think you should just be friends unless that's ALL you want - which clearly it isn't. Best wishes.
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