ladyu Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 (edited) hello After several break ups i thought love is not for me but then i met a dude in dating website and then we chat for almost 2-3 hours daily. Before i thought he is just another dude and i was just friendly but he liked me and he impressed me with his intelligence, his thoughts and his love and care for me. He hasnt committed to me but i am feeling so committed to him already that i just dont feel like talkin with other guys. i do talk but i dont feel like talkin to them. We both think that things should go slowly and also we beleive in fate and destiny so we are unsure, but yeah oh i love him !!! he said he does too ... i dont know whether his family would like me as his commitment depends on his parents will too, my parents are happy to have him as son in law ... so its their turn and i am feeling weird , i really dont want my heart to break again... i hope this turns out to the one whom i am waiting for since years... am 26 and he is 27 ... my friends say we look perfect... but i dont want my heart to break again.... why do i have hope even after so many break ups ? i mean i dont wanna hurt myself ? so should i stop myself from being committed for time being and enjoy life as it is or just wait for him... and hope for best ??? Edited October 3, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs and move to dating
Author ladyu Posted October 4, 2014 Author Posted October 4, 2014 lol ya this should be in dating hmm.... may be i already feel so close to him that i created this in marriage forum... but i dont wanna break my heart again pls help
Natsu21 Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 Why not just go for it? Truth is, this could either be the best thing in your life, or the worst. Won't know till you try.
Assasda Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 OP sounds like their trolling. So ridiculous. Hopefully youve at least already met the guy in person
Author ladyu Posted October 4, 2014 Author Posted October 4, 2014 yes i have met him ... and i know he is not fake ... i have seen educational cetificates and checked upon his identity too and i know the place where he is working too just dunno the exact salary lol ... but his future is bright ...l i wont allow fake person to enter into my life just need to check his character i mean he shouldnt be womanizer and he should truly love me.... he seems innocent but u never know hmmm that is what is pinching my heart i dont wanna break my heart again i met all bad dudes in life ... but this dude is the only one who is really serious about his career and also serious about his life so this is the thing which sets him apart from other guys ... (he is not nerd he is handsome ) but yeah ohhh i have low hopes
Assasda Posted October 4, 2014 Posted October 4, 2014 yes i have met him ... and i know he is not fake ... i have seen educational cetificates and checked upon his identity too and i know the place where he is working too just dunno the exact salary lol ... but his future is bright ...l i wont allow fake person to enter into my life just need to check his character i mean he shouldnt be womanizer and he should truly love me.... he seems innocent but u never know hmmm that is what is pinching my heart i dont wanna break my heart again i met all bad dudes in life ... but this dude is the only one who is really serious about his career and also serious about his life so this is the thing which sets him apart from other guys ... (he is not nerd he is handsome ) but yeah ohhh i have low hopes Oh I do declare! Hopefully this prince charming marries you. -Your friends say you look good together. And oh the parents, yes the parents. They mean soooooo much. Oh the perfect man. You have all this figured out now OP. Now for the easy part, get him to commit to you. - lol before dating you even
Author ladyu Posted October 4, 2014 Author Posted October 4, 2014 Oh I do declare! Hopefully this prince charming marries you. -Your friends say you look good together. And oh the parents, yes the parents. They mean soooooo much. Oh the perfect man. You have all this figured out now OP. Now for the easy part, get him to commit to you. - lol before dating you even lol i will date him thousands of times before thinking about marriage ... and even see if he can satisfy me physically and emotionally i know i wrote about the marriage thing (may be becos i see younger ppl got married already before me and i am still single) , i am just confused whether i should start dating or stay single forever (that is what i had decided before meeting him after loads of break ups ) may be love is just not for me and even marriage ... anyway thanks for ur
Author ladyu Posted October 4, 2014 Author Posted October 4, 2014 Why not just go for it? Truth is, this could either be the best thing in your life, or the worst. Won't know till you try. yeah true !!! once i start dating i take it seriously... i m so much loyal to the dude whom i start dating and eventually break my heart i dont want that to happen... again i really cant decide what i must do
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