stef22 Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 So I came back to resume my studies and I met my ex cause he had some of my things. When we met, we started talking cause he knew I'm currently ill. I was sitting quite far from him and he kept on coming closer and he kissed me. I asked him why did he do that and he said he wanted to. We hooked up after that and he said he needs time and I agreed cause I needed time as well. He messaged me and said he wants to be with me but he needed to sort things out with this other girl he met while I was away. He cheated and I forgave him. I met him the following week and things turned sour. He said he needed more time and while I was with the girl kept calling him. I told him I can't do this anymore cause him being with someone is not fair to anyone and that it hurts me too much cause I love him too much to see him the arms of another. He told he sees no future with this girl and that he needs someone who knows what she wants in life, like me. I told him to make up his mind cause I'm tired of being pushed around. He never let me walk away once. So I left and the next day he called me for lunch. I thought it was just with him but turns out he wanted me to meet his mum and sister. I have been with him for 2 years and this is the first time I was meeting them. I agreed cause the mum asked me to come. When I got there, his mum was really nice and even put food on my plate. She told me it was good that I had my life sorted and everything. After lunch, I asked him if his mum knew who I was and he said yes, she knows we're together. He even told his mum that he might move in with me. But when I asked him if were together, he said he still needs time. I decided to agree. But then, I got really sick and was taken to the hospital after I found out some bad news about my family. My friend panicked and called him and he called me. We spoke for a bit but I was to out of it. The next day, one of my friends called me to tell that he messaged her to ask her to talk to me. I got upset cause I don't want people knowing that I'm sick. I called him and said some things I regret. I don't know what to do. Me staying in this country (I moved to be closer with him) is haunting me because we have too many memories here and I keep getting panic attacks each time but if I leave, I would be losing money, disappointing many people and losing a wonderful opportunity and dream. Why did he ask me to meet his mum if he wanted to end things?
me85 Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 You're in a tough spot. What do you want to do? First, you should want to BU with your bf. He cheated and is still talking to the girl he cheated on you with. BU with him please. You already have stresses in your life with family and being sick...you should rid yourself of the bad things that are happening to you that you actually have control over...like the situation with your bf. You have the power to remove that kind of stress from your life and you should. So what he asked you to meet his mom and sister?? If he's still talking to another girl and blatantly letting it be known then he is only trying to have you and her both. Don't be his doormat.
d0nnivain Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 he probably introduced you to his mother to placate her. She may have been pestering him to meet his GF. You were probably more parentally acceptable then this other girl.
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