DJMike Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Hey Loveshack people! Need advice on this, thanks in an advance. There's this girl (Dana) I have been taking a liking to. She plays games with me all the time. One minute she acts like she's interested, one minute she is disinterested and doesn't contact me. I'm kinda fed up with this girl. I still like her tho. Me and Dana are friends with this other chick named Leah. I am friends more with Leah's boyfriend, but I am really close to Leah and her boyfriend. Dana is kinda close to Leah, but not that much. I am going out with this other girl at the moment, we're taking things slow, but I noticed like a week after I am telling everyone I am dating this girl, Dana calls Leah out of the blue drunk, and tells her she's at a bar with some dude named Jeff, and she meant to call some girl named Lisa. Leah told me this, so that's how I know. Leah said that Dana was drunk and she kept asking her to meet her at this bar with some dude, and some girl and she kept talking about this dude Jeff. Was it to get to me? Because Dana knows Leah would probably tell me? To make it look like she's dating some dude, because I said I was dating a girl? Do you think she's getting jealous? Or do you think she was legit drunk, and called Leah?
preraph Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 I bet she was drunk, but I guess only time will tell.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Hey Loveshack people! Need advice on this, thanks in an advance. There's this girl (Dana) I have been taking a liking to. She plays games with me all the time. One minute she acts like she's interested, one minute she is disinterested and doesn't contact me. I'm kinda fed up with this girl. I still like her tho. Me and Dana are friends with this other chick named Leah. I am friends more with Leah's boyfriend, but I am really close to Leah and her boyfriend. Dana is kinda close to Leah, but not that much. I am going out with this other girl at the moment, we're taking things slow, but I noticed like a week after I am telling everyone I am dating this girl, Dana calls Leah out of the blue drunk, and tells her she's at a bar with some dude named Jeff, and she meant to call some girl named Lisa. Leah told me this, so that's how I know. Leah said that Dana was drunk and she kept asking her to meet her at this bar with some dude, and some girl and she kept talking about this dude Jeff. Was it to get to me? Because Dana knows Leah would probably tell me? To make it look like she's dating some dude, because I said I was dating a girl? Do you think she's getting jealous? Or do you think she was legit drunk, and called Leah? Dude you got way too much drama with Dana IMO. I don't deal with peeps when they are drunk because it is all messed up. It is best to look at how Dana treats you in communication. Do you want to deal with her like this all the time??? Don't think about it unless your thinking FWB. 1
Author DJMike Posted October 2, 2014 Author Posted October 2, 2014 Dude you got way too much drama with Dana IMO. I don't deal with peeps when they are drunk because it is all messed up. It is best to look at how Dana treats you in communication. Do you want to deal with her like this all the time??? Don't think about it unless your thinking FWB. Yeah man...it's a weird thing with Dana. I still have an attraction towards her. I think she did it in a sly way, thinking it would get back to me that she was out with some guy...because she's not that close to Leah. She is friends with her, but it's weird that she drunk called Leah, out of the people, you know? I don't know if this is one of her games or not.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Yeah man...it's a weird thing with Dana. I still have an attraction towards her. I think she did it in a sly way, thinking it would get back to me that she was out with some guy...because she's not that close to Leah. She is friends with her, but it's weird that she drunk called Leah, out of the people, you know? I don't know if this is one of her games or not. Well, I have this strange ability to keep games being played on me from happening. Another strange ability is I can turn off attraction, or should say turn it on when needed, as I leave it off for the most part. Both keep me safe from such madness. Never think you can figure out a women, cuz the day you need to, it is already too late. Meaning, if a woman seems easier than most to understand, it probably will be one that you should take the time with, as you will get tired of chasing your tail to get some tail at the end.
ThorntonMelon Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 If a woman who was interested in me tried to get my interest by calling my friend's girlfriend asking her to hang out with (woman #1 and her date), assuming that the friend's girlfriend would then pass this message along... well, I'd think she was pretty damn immature or nuts.
Redhead14 Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Hey Loveshack people! Need advice on this, thanks in an advance. There's this girl (Dana) I have been taking a liking to. She plays games with me all the time. One minute she acts like she's interested, one minute she is disinterested and doesn't contact me. I'm kinda fed up with this girl. I still like her tho. Me and Dana are friends with this other chick named Leah. I am friends more with Leah's boyfriend, but I am really close to Leah and her boyfriend. Dana is kinda close to Leah, but not that much. I am going out with this other girl at the moment, we're taking things slow, but I noticed like a week after I am telling everyone I am dating this girl, Dana calls Leah out of the blue drunk, and tells her she's at a bar with some dude named Jeff, and she meant to call some girl named Lisa. Leah told me this, so that's how I know. Leah said that Dana was drunk and she kept asking her to meet her at this bar with some dude, and some girl and she kept talking about this dude Jeff. Was it to get to me? Because Dana knows Leah would probably tell me? To make it look like she's dating some dude, because I said I was dating a girl? Do you think she's getting jealous? Or do you think she was legit drunk, and called Leah? "She plays games with me all the time." She will do this All The Time. There is no way for us to know whether she was legit drunk, as you say. Drunk or not, it's games. If you think you want to get together with her, and you think she will stop playing games, you are mistaken. Even if it appeared that she stopped playing games, you will always wonder when something funky happens. Forget about all of this. Find yourself a girl your age who is more mature. They are out there.
d0nnivain Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Drunk or sober, I think Dana is playing games. The fact that you are seeing another woman & care about what Dana thinks or does does not bode well for the woman you are seeing. If you like Dana, drop the woman you are seeing & ask Dana out. In the worst way possible -- by trying to make you jealous -- she is clamoring for your attention. However, since she's so . . all over the place . . . even if you asked her out directly I think she will continue to play games with you. You should not however play games with this other woman's feelings.
Redhead14 Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 And, one other thing, you are young. Don't fall into a bad habit now of choosing women who will likely hurt you and then carry that on into adulthood. Think about consequences. Things do haunt you sometimes and it's hard to undo once it's done.
Assasda Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 Sounds like your life is a soap opera dude. And you are the queen soap opera princess. Be a man, and chill and watch some sports
Diezel Posted October 3, 2014 Posted October 3, 2014 So if Train A takes off from one station and Train B........ What is this, high-school?
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