Teknoe Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 She is visiting from overseas. Reason: she's my future sister-in-law's cousin's friend. She's in town for this weekend's wedding. I met her this past week at a small gathering at a restaurant and right away I felt she liked me. Her cousin kept introducing her to me as "single" with a little wink wink, nudge nudge. She blushed toward the end of the evening. I walked her luggage down from her hotel room to my car and that was the first time we truly talked 1 on 1 a bit. I thought she was nice, sweet and I definitely found her more attractive after she changed into some more casual wear. I actually find I like it when girls go casual versus dressing formally. I don't know why, but that's how it is for me. Anyway, I'm picking her up from the airport later tonight and we'll be catching a late showing of Annabelle. I'll pay for her. I guess it's a date! The only thing is, like I said, she lives overseas and will go back there after this weekend, but eh... never hurt to have a little fun. BTW, here's the precursor topic to this topic. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/495203-got-kissed-girl-tonight
d0nnivain Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 You have a date! That's it. It doesn't have to be anything. It can be fun while it lasts. You can see each other when fate throws you together. Just enjoy & don't think too hard about the future right now. The logistics of an overseas LDR are a nightmare.
Diezel Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Just enjoy it. Don't even think about an LDR. It's one date, and she's gone in a few days. Don't overthink this even before it happens. And remember, no matter what happens, she's leaving in a few days anyway.
LoneIsland Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 (edited) Women always get exciting by the distance, they think it's the best thing since invention of the bra. You may not know what you are getting into. But I suppose if you don't try, you will never know. Edited October 2, 2014 by LoneIsland
Author Teknoe Posted October 2, 2014 Author Posted October 2, 2014 Yeah, I tend to overthink and overanalyze things. I will try to keep cool and nonchalant here.
Crila16 Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Have a fun time on the date, and don't "Hit it" and move on. All her friend's, future sis in law, cousins and whoever else will hate you and you will always be considered a jerk if you use this girl who really likes you. She'll get attached and hurt. If you want to "Hit it" with a girl, find someone who's not involved in this group. Don't SH-t where you eat...and you never know. You may like this girl. Where there's a will, there's a way.
Author Teknoe Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 Date happened last night. We went to see Annabelle. I paid, she touched me during the movie (trying to scare me) and afterward I drove her back to her hotel where her friend was waiting for her. She was cool as a friend, but no attraction and she's going back overseas later this week. Didn't try to kiss her or make a move at all, as I knew I wasn't really attracted. Was a gentleman, had a good time at the movie (it was more enjoyable than what I thought it would be, based on reviews) and it was a nice 1 and done.
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