Bumpin in My Trunk Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 It's getting harder to do. Most foreign women came here when they were little and now they are "Americanzied" and don't have their countries values anymore or they are the second generation "_____ American." Anyone know where to find good women these days?
SawtoothMars Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 It's getting harder to do. Most foreign women came here when they were little and now they are "Americanzied" and don't have their countries values anymore or they are the second generation "_____ American." Anyone know where to find good women these days? If you don't like American culture you would be well advised to learn a language for a country with a culture you do like and move there. Honestly though... I would suggest you get good at dealing with American women first. If you can be successful with them then you have a great chance with other cultures.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 UK, and English Canada... Their mind set is more down to earth. I have an LDR with one in the UK. I feel I can spoil her with my ways as she is not greedy in any way. Though being from California, I did take a holiday out to Atlanta GA, and went up to Ellijay and then down to Savanna as a wee ride through GA. Through my travels I met two very nice younger women, they were obviously a lot different than what you would find at home. Sweet and easy to talk to, just I did not bother to be any more than polite in return. For me, I never had such an easy feeling about meeting people back home, so I was feeling a bit odd in how things seemed. Well that is my take... and you don't have to learn a second language.
Cristo Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 UK, and English Canada... Their mind set is more down to earth. I have an LDR with one in the UK. I feel I can spoil her with my ways as she is not greedy in any way. Though being from California, I did take a holiday out to Atlanta GA, and went up to Ellijay and then down to Savanna as a wee ride through GA. Through my travels I met two very nice younger women, they were obviously a lot different than what you would find at home. Sweet and easy to talk to, just I did not bother to be any more than polite in return. For me, I never had such an easy feeling about meeting people back home, so I was feeling a bit odd in how things seemed. Well that is my take... and you don't have to learn a second language. The UK and Canada are not much different than the US. If you're going to go elsewhere, make it the third world. You'll find nice women and you'll be able to get as hot or hotter than you would in the US. Don't go on the dating sites though. You'll find mostly scammers there.
Author Bumpin in My Trunk Posted October 2, 2014 Author Posted October 2, 2014 If you don't like American culture you would be well advised to learn a language for a country with a culture you do like and move there. Honestly though... I would suggest you get good at dealing with American women first. If you can be successful with them then you have a great chance with other cultures. Already know Spanish. Read, speak, and write Spanish . After all, it is my mother tongue I also know some half-assed Russian. I can get by if I went out to the supermarket or park or something. And so u want me to deal with American women and all their issues? Drinking, partying, "feminism" (just trying to put this out there-i'm all for equality but not this new kind of feminism imposed by America), unloyalty, entitlement, and my most hated aspect-"Southern Belle/Lady" And the closest thing I can find to Colombian women are Mexicans. And I don't do Mexicans. It's honestly like buying a Chinese Iphone when it comes to Mexicans, except the Chinese Iphones are better. I apologize if I come off as racist but I just can't deal with those 2 nationalities. I look mostly for home(Colombia, Ecuador, Venezuela, Brazil) Eastern European, Jew/muslim/Arab, or Asian. So pretty much anything except Mexican and American. My dating pool is large enough I suppose?
Cristo Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Already know Spanish. Read, speak, and write Spanish . After all, it is my mother tongue I also know some half-assed Russian. I can get by if I went out to the supermarket or park or something. And so u want me to deal with American women and all their issues? Drinking, partying, "feminism" (just trying to put this out there-i'm all for equality but not this new kind of feminism imposed by America), unloyalty, entitlement, and my most hated aspect-"Southern Belle/Lady" And the closest thing I can find to Colombian women are Mexicans. And I don't do Mexicans. It's honestly like buying a Chinese Iphone when it comes to Mexicans, except the Chinese Iphones are better. I apologize if I come off as racist but I just can't deal with those 2 nationalities. I look mostly for home(Colombia, Ecuador, Venezuela, Brazil) Eastern European, Jew/muslim/Arab, or Asian. So pretty much anything except Mexican and American. My dating pool is large enough I suppose? If you want Colombian girls, then go to Colombia.
SawtoothMars Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 And so u want me to deal with American women and all their issues? Drinking, partying, "feminism" (just trying to put this out there-i'm all for equality but not this new kind of feminism imposed by America), unloyalty, entitlement, and my most hated aspect-"Southern Belle/Lady" Yes, I do suggest you learn to deal with American women. Two main reasons. First, they tend to be very raw and unfiltered... which means you learn a lot about women in general. Let's be honest, most crap aside... women are women. Second, it will make you appreciate the finer qualities of women from other cultures MUCH more. As a side note... having dated a few ultra feminists... a rational/intelligent guy either shatters their worldview or forces them to crawl back under their rock. I have converted two feminists back to being human... and one is forever lost to the dark side. 1
Mister Zen Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 It's getting harder to do. Most foreign women came here when they were little and now they are "Americanzied" and don't have their countries values anymore or they are the second generation "_____ American." Anyone know where to find good women these days? Move to a large International city like NYC, LA or DC. These cities have lots and lots of foreign women, exchange students, etc. Sometimes a woman's family will even pay you to marry them so they can get a green card. My friend got offered $30,000 to marry someones sister so she can stay in the U.S.
jay1983 Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 I made a thread about something like this http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/492546-western-men-seeking-foreign-wives
Author Bumpin in My Trunk Posted October 2, 2014 Author Posted October 2, 2014 Sometimes a woman's family will even pay you to marry them so they can get a green card. My friend got offered $30,000 to marry someones sister so she can stay in the U.S. hahahaha but I'm marrying for love not some business deal
FitChick Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 My recent Match profile enabled me to see what American men are like after exclusively dating Brits for many years. I am not impressed so far. Hoping to find an expat in the US instead of UK.
Cristo Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 My recent Match profile enabled me to see what American men are like after exclusively dating Brits for many years. I am not impressed so far. Hoping to find an expat in the US instead of UK. I've always said that Western Europe is the ideal for American women, whereas Asia and South America are the ideal for American men.
Author Bumpin in My Trunk Posted October 2, 2014 Author Posted October 2, 2014 Or South American men too (hellooooooooo)
SawtoothMars Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 I've always said that Western Europe is the ideal for American women, whereas Asia and South America are the ideal for American men. American women tend to like the Southern European guys more than their Western counterparts. I dated around in Europe in my early 20's. The women there did not impress me much. Or South American men too (hellooooooooo) LOL... Who do you think South American women marry 99% of the time? I honestly think Asian ladies get hit with the same kind of unrealistic stereotype. I would guess that no more than 1% of Asian women are interested in western guys. It just so happens that there are over a billion Asian women. Also if they grow up in the U.S. then they get bombarded with negative media stereotypes for Asian men... and I think that has an effect on the dating pool. I'm wondering why nobody mentions Africa? Seems like it could be an amazing place to find a quality wife.
Emilia Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 I'm wondering why nobody mentions Africa? Seems like it could be an amazing place to find a quality wife. 30% of the population being HIV+ might have something to do with it but by all means knock yourself out.
SycamoreCircle Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 I've done a lot of world travel over my life: Colombia or Indonesia, I would recommend.
Diezel Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 hahahaha but I'm marrying for love not some business deal Newsflash... "50%" of the time, marriage IS just a business deal.
CryForNoOne Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Why do you feel the need to seek out partners in other countries when there are over 150 million members of the opposite sex right here? This is the most diverse country in the world. I GET that many American women have a sense of entitlement blah blah blah, but there are millions who are completely down to earth. As others have stated, develop your ability to form relationships with American women and you may soon find that a fair number of them possess those precise attributes you are seeking elsewhere...
SawtoothMars Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 30% of the population being HIV+ might have something to do with it but by all means knock yourself out. Only some countries are like that. Ethiopia for example has an HIV rate similar to the United States... actually lower if you just count black people. The women are very pretty and the majority are Christian.
johnson_j Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Silly stereotypes. If you were in Colombia, you'd be complaining about those women who dote over their "exes and are too feminine". It's all relative - my girlfriend is an American girl from Colombia and has good (and bad) traits just like the rest of the women do. I've had no different luck American vs. foreign women and the small numbers I have dated wouldn't be statistically significant anyway.
umirano Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 30% of the population being HIV+ might have something to do with it but by all means knock yourself out. Untrue. Ten characters
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