LoneIsland Posted October 1, 2014 Posted October 1, 2014 Sex is NOT a need! It is a desire and a want! Stop comparing food which is needed for survival to sex! They are not the same thing! All the men running away, with not a single one staying proves you are wrong. Sex is needed for their survival. If it isn't, then at least some of them would have stayed. Not one did because they knew they would die from it.
mongo Posted October 1, 2014 Posted October 1, 2014 Marriage is overrated bs to you, and that's fine. To a lot of people, it isn't. There are men out there that will respect that. I get that you're not one of them, but don't throw stereotypes around and call it the rule. As for OP.. I would probably try dating men who share your values. That's probably the best way to deal with the skeleton in the closet, as there won't be any. the reason i said that is there are people in the world who believe that sex is dirty, immoral etc. so they will take vows of celibacy...possibly for their entire life. or they will not take part in sex outside of marriage. i equate this kind of behavior with people who wont eat pork because its unclean...or wont drink alcohol because its a sin...or carry a rabbits foot for good luck. talk about throwing assumptions around and calling them rules. lol. all this stuff is silly and superstitious. so when someone says "im saving myself for marriage", because its "moral" or "good for the marriage" or "i want it to be special".... after you are married and have sex, nothings changed...no angels came down from heaven and played music. what was so special about it? its just another day. do you see my point i am making? when you tell a man "i wont have sex" its really like saying "im too righteous for dirty sex" or "my vagina is so special"...indicating oh crap this bish is crazy and im not gonna get any....there may be men out there who like that kinda thing though but i wouldnt expect them to be upstanding. anybody who says i dont want or need sex is a liar. i dont want to date a liar.
Destined2B Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 OP, there are plenty of women who share your outlook on premarital sex. Perhaps exploring a relationship with one of them might be the most realistic option for you.
LoneIsland Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 OP, there are plenty of women who share your outlook on premarital sex. Perhaps exploring a relationship with one of them might be the most realistic option for you. Good solution that. In fact I had this exact solution for a women I got to know who thought it was strange why anyone needed sex. It wasn't to preserve virginity in her case. But she badly needed to connect with someone. So I suggested finding another woman.
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