malin819 Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 Hi again Not going to lie being single is real fun and I have been dating for the fun of it and had a blast. Now I met most of these people online but now I'm stuck in a **I can do better** phase. I'm talking and seeing 5-6 girls at the same time but nothing sexual happened so far. Mostly hanging out for walks, museums and car rides. I'm always afraid that if I choose one and evolve into something serious that I missed out on something better. I know its all about taking chances and maybe getting hurt in the end but I'd like to give a chance to one of them. How do you guys and girls deal with a situation like this?
d0nnivain Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 You have GIGs. When you find one who makes your pulse quicken. Pick that person to date more seriously. As the relationship deepens, it should get better -- you will have love. 1
Fondue Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 I multi-dated quite a bit a year and a half ago. More than quite a bit, really. And in the end, it just clears up. The more you date these girls, the more you realize which ones are not for you. You weed them out naturally. First dates usually went very well. It's the dates after that made it certain that I didn't want to pursue them further.
Author malin819 Posted September 30, 2014 Author Posted September 30, 2014 I multi-dated quite a bit a year and a half ago. More than quite a bit, really. And in the end, it just clears up. The more you date these girls, the more you realize which ones are not for you. You weed them out naturally. First dates usually went very well. It's the dates after that made it certain that I didn't want to pursue them further. I don't want to come on has a player or douche bag. I want to be honest with them and usually that's when you see the true character.
Fondue Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 I don't want to come on has a player or douche bag. I want to be honest with them and usually that's when you see the true character. Why do you think this makes you a player/douchebag? I truly believe I am neither. I treated every single woman with complete respect. No smooth talk. No promises. Nothing. I even paid for all the dates. We read on this forum about "players" and their behaviors all the time. Sweet talk and all. I did NONE of that. If you're not a player, you're not going to be a player. You don't need to be a "player" to date women, man.
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