banini_jeque Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 I have this friend. I'm a guy. She's a lady. I'm a bit wounded from a previous relationship/attempted friendship with the ex too soon situation. I don't totally feel ready to date seriously yet. I just want to get out and meet more women. I've told her this and she understands. I really like her as a friend, she's great, but I suspect it just feels great because she has feelings for me and it boosts my ego a bit. But she doesn't seem like what I want. I like curves; she's really thin. I'm 32. She's 35. I like older women, but I also want to have kids and I'm not sure I want to have them right away. I'm not even sure if she wants them at all. She's smoked for most of her life, and recently quit, but she also likes to occassionally smoke weed and I don't smoke anything except a cigar once in a blue moon. Now, for some reason, having to tell her that I just want to sort of play the field for the time being got to me, and I feel more attracted to her, despite the above. What's up with that?
mightycpa Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 Who cares? Just go with it. Have some fun, and stop wondering why you feel this way, or why you feel that. What difference does it make why? Stick with your plan to play the field. That generally gives you some perspective, and it prevents falling in love with everyone that pays a little attention to you. 1
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