To all those who are hurt, angry, vulnerable and doubtful.

[Sweetescape910]

Hi guys. I used to always read love shack threads that would relate to my situation during a break up. When I went through my first break up, I would read advice on how to get my ex back, or how to redeem myself acting like a crazy ex.

Here I am, several breakups later, and I just wanted to say, IT DOES GET BETTER. As of right now, I'm going through another breakup. Its normal to feel like you lost yourself after a break up, and here's to all those who feel lost and mistreated.

One thing I learned is, you cannot fight fate. You have to let things take its natural course in life. Fighting will suck up your time, your energy. You're NOT entitled another day on this earth, for it is a huge blessing. After my break ups, I always felt like I didnt know who I was, or what I was capable of. Ive always battled that constant feeling of lonliness, because truth is I didnt love myself enough, and as of right now, I still don't feel like i love myself fully. Please dont forget to take care of yourselves, because YOU are worth more than somebody validating your exsistence. Don't ever give your ex that power.

 

Go to the gym, hang out with friends, be PRODUCTIVE.

Hang in there everyone<3

[Mandy26]

You are awesome, I enjoyed reading this as I too am going through another break up...thanks

[me85]

Great post! So true.

[StrangerThanFiction]

Thanks for this! Just what I needed to read right now!

[Targetlock]

thanks for this, time heals all wounds i guess onwards and upwards though the path may be painful and hard