Jason808 Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 First of all, sorry for my English if i made any mistakes. So I've had a relationship for about 2 years, we broke up in March and I'm fine with all of that now. I started talking to an old classmate a while ago and I'm not sure what I can expect from her. When we talk we are always having a nice conversation and the conversation never goes quiet, but then again, we only talk if I engage the conversation. I think she tried making me jealous (im not sure) with a guy talking to her from her work, she told me that she doesn't like talking to him and that he just constantly keeps messaging her but that he is a douche and how he tries to be funny etc. Last weekend she even asked me to go out to a club with her friends and my friends, too bad me and my friends already had other plans so we didn't go. I don't really know what I can expect from her, sometimes she gives me small hints telling me how something i do is cute but then again i can tell she is being very shy when I'm trying to let her know in a subtle way that she is pretty or cute. It's been a while for me since I had a relationship and I have to admit the breakup has affected my self esteem (wich I'm currently working on) therefore I have become a bit scared of being rejected. Please let me know what you think or how I can find out if she is interested in me (in a subtle way). Thank you in advance
PegNosePete Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 Why be subtle? Just ask her out. One on one, not with friends. If she says no, so what? Move on...
Author Jason808 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Posted September 29, 2014 Why be subtle? Just ask her out. One on one, not with friends. If she says no, so what? Move on... Well we come from the same town so things could get awkward if I ask her out and she says no. I just don't know what to expect from her or even wether I should keep talking, I don't mind engaging the conversation but if she wants to talk to me she could start it too, right? Don't get me wrong, I'm not in love with her I would just want to get to know her a bit better, I just don't know if she wants the same.
Tayken Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 @OP....I don't do subtle usually, and reserve it for foreplay time The 1st issue with your thread, is calling dating a "game". It should not be viewed as such, and shouldn't surprise you if you get played for treating it that way.
Author Jason808 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Posted September 29, 2014 @OP....I don't do subtle usually, and reserve it for foreplay time The 1st issue with your thread, is calling dating a "game". It should not be viewed as such, and shouldn't surprise you if you get played for treating it that way. Well, the title might say game but I don't see dating as a "game". I accatually take it serious and I don't date people "just for fun".
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