GoreSP Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 Ah.....but they are bigger than that in their mind, and because we still live in the dark ages, "it's a man' job to ask them out" If it's a man' job to do all this nonsense, why then do most these days insist on telling a guy the exact ring they want? Ludicrous just like people dictating which gift they want for xmas / valentines / etc Whatever happened to it's the thought that counts? More like most of the dating advice women get nowadays is to let men do the chasing because of their 'hunter instincts'
Imported Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 Some of them do get noticeably disappointed. Angry? I've only really seen that once, and it was more like mild frustration. I never really clocked they wanted me till afterwards... In my experience, it's when they talk to their friends about being attracted to you and it's their friends that act angry....the actual girl just seems...humiliated. I must be gay because I didn't ask that girl our. I must be a jerk because I am not trying to get to know her. I must think I am too good because I return common pleasantries with politeness but nothing more. Difference between a guy acting all butt hurt being rejected compared to this is...the guy actually asked! Since they never asked, how do I know? Look, they're pretty damn obvious with their attraction. Their friends are pretty damn obvious with their dislike of me. I had a couple occasions when they were in my face about. I did nothing wrong.
ComingInHot Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 In my experience, it's when they talk to their friends about being attracted to you and it's their friends that act angry....the actual girl just seems...humiliated. I must be gay because I didn't ask that girl our. I must be a jerk because I am not trying to get to know her. I must think I am too good because I return common pleasantries with politeness but nothing more. Difference between a guy acting all butt hurt being rejected compared to this is...the guy actually asked! Since they never asked, how do I know? Look, they're pretty damn obvious with their attraction. Their friends are pretty damn obvious with their dislike of me. I had a couple occasions when they were in my face about. I did nothing wrong. That to me is really weird. Nothing 'happened', right? Am I missing something? Nobody cheated, stole, said defaming things and girls were actually, Literally Pi$$ed and in mens faces etc?! I've been out of this thing far too long. I'm pretty much convinced I am Never going to rejoin either. Rejection is disappointing as it is but to be expected to expel the kind of energy it would take to get all angry over it then cause a scene? Nah. I'd rather go play with friends and be happy. ...who are you people hanging out with?!?? :bunny: sheesh*
gaius Posted September 30, 2014 Posted September 30, 2014 Life is a lot simpler if you just treat every woman like you want her.
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