If she has my number and never called/texted, does that me she is not interested

[you_can_not_see_me]

So a girl who turned me down on the grounds of being in a relationship asked for my phone number anyway.

 

Now it has been a few months since she had my phone number and she never contacted me. Does that mean she was never interested or is she still with that guy?

 

Or is it that I was just stupid not to get her number instead?

[mightycpa]

Did she take that number on paper or on her phone? On paper, she lost it. On the phone, she wasn't interested enough.

[you_can_not_see_me]

I just don't understand why she would ask for my number if she didn't want to call me, I didn't even suggest exchanging numbers to her, she just asked me for my number and once she put it into her phone she said she d call me later.

 

 

The only reason I ask this is cause she has reappeared in some way and she seemed overly friendly, but its hard for me to reconcile her never contacting me with her apparent flirty and friendliness.

 

Wouldn't she avoid me, if she wasn't interested? and if she's interested why didn't she call?

[NJ123]

I just don't understand why she would ask for my number if she didn't want to call me, I didn't even suggest exchanging numbers to her, she just asked me for my number and once she put it into her phone she said she d call me later.

 

 

The only reason I ask this is cause she has reappeared in some way and she seemed overly friendly, but its hard for me to reconcile her never contacting me with her apparent flirty and friendliness.

 

Wouldn't she avoid me, if she wasn't interested? and if she's interested why didn't she call?

 

Seems it's possible you are her fallback guy. She probably possibly deleted your number while she was still with the other guy, now is coming back to you possibly after breaking up with her b/f.

[evanescentworld]

There could be a Myriad of reasons, one of which was to off-load you and get you to quit bothering her.

 

If she was in a relationship, the most respectful thing would have been to have backed right off.

Not for you to go muddying the waters...

 

Remember, if she takes you up on your offer, what she does to cheat on him, she will do to cheat on you.

[you_can_not_see_me]

There could be a Myriad of reasons, one of which was to off-load you and get you to quit bothering her.

 

If she was in a relationship, the most respectful thing would have been to have backed right off.

Not for you to go muddying the waters...

 

Remember, if she takes you up on your offer, what she does to cheat on him, she will do to cheat on you.

I was hoping she would call me once this relationship of sorts was over, she made it sound like it wasn't all that serious.

[LoneIsland]

You are a backup she doesn't need. She could have 10 other similar backups.

[Toodaloo]

Wouldn't she avoid me, if she wasn't interested? and if she's interested why didn't she call?

 

She was just trying to be "nice".

 

I get this all the damned time. Sometimes when you are a happy flirty sort of person people can misconstrue what your intentions are. She was just having a laugh no more. She told you about her partner you continued to persue so she is taking the easy option.

 

Its easier to just take the number and delete it in the morning/ later when you are sober/ out of sight than to say no time and time again or you end up in a conversation full of drivel about god knows what when what you wanted to be doing was dance with your mates who are heading out of the door...

 

She has a partner - what the hell are you doing chasing her anyway???