iris1717 Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 I live on the west coast and over the summer i met this guy from the east coast. About a week before he left we kissed and became sort of a boyfriend girlfriend thing, but we just call it complicated. When he left for about the first month it was ok and we facetimed everyday but these past 2 weeks he's been extremely distanced and he's basically stopped talking to me altogether. I'm a HS sophmore and he's a HS senior so i get that HW and college apps are extremely overwhelming, but i really wish he would check in once in a while... i mean if you're going to just drop me at least give me a notice... should i just delete him from my life now or actually respond to his texts if he texts me
ExpatInItaly Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 I think you're correct that he's fading. I would perhaps call him and end it. It doesn't sound as though there's much of a relationship to revive at this point, so I'd move on and date someone locally. You're too young to be put on hold like that!
d0nnivain Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 You can respond to his overtures but assume that you no longer have an exclusive relationship & conduct yourself accordingly. He was your fabulous summer fling, not your future husband.
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