teddy1 Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 Ok so i met this girl on tinder, went on a few dates with her and got on really well with eachother. The only problem is she lives far away from me and with our busy schedules its hard to meet. We havent seen eachother in a few weeks. Recently there was a picture that appeared on her profile of her on a night out with her girlfriends and shes in the picture with her friends and this guy with his arm around her. When i asked her in a jokey manner did she get with any boys the night peviously she said no and said it was a girly night. She then quickly removed the tagged photo on facebook. Should i be bugged by this? Should i mention it? I am jealous by it but as i say we have only been on 3 dates i realise she still is single.. Thanks for your help
Dontfindme Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 I think you're reading way too much into it, and - as you mentioned - she's single. 2
Author teddy1 Posted September 28, 2014 Author Posted September 28, 2014 I thought so but i cant understand why she would remove the picture? Can somebody rationalise why she would remove the picture?
Dontfindme Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 Perhaps when you brought it up she realized that the photo transmitted the wrong message, so she decided to get rid of it. Or maybe she didn't like the way she looked in the photo - and you pointing it out to her made her realize that others are looking at her profile. It could be anything really. I post photos and delete them all the time. Sometimes it'll look good to me one day, and then not the next.
LifeGoesOnMan Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 I'd be happy she removed it but don't believe anything about a "girly night" out without interaction with other guys. That's just bullsh*t , any time girls go out with a group in public guys are going to try to interact with them. remember girls are masters of deception, the fact pictures of her and other guys are being posted on her facebook, yea that'd make me uneasy too. 1
Assasda Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 She is not your girlfriend!! So why are you jealous? Date other women 1
Author teddy1 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Posted September 29, 2014 Perhaps when you brought it up she realized that the photo transmitted the wrong message, so she decided to get rid of it. Or maybe she didn't like the way she looked in the photo - and you pointing it out to her made her realize that others are looking at her profile. It could be anything really. I post photos and delete them all the time. Sometimes it'll look good to me one day, and then not the next. Shes not the type of girl to remove a picture because she didnt like the way she looked in the picture, theres a few other pictures shes mentioned about in the past that she didnt like and didnt removed them. I do like this girl and I like spending time with her so thats why its bugged me. Would it be wrong for me to say to her something along the lines of that guy had a nice beard you were with in that picture but oh wait you removed it or something? I dont want to come across as needy but then again I do want to know as to why she took it down. I dont like investing time and energy into somebody who could dupe me.
Melan Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 Felt so strongly about this I made an account just so I could reply! I would strongly advise you not to bring anything up again about the guy and the picture. If I was the girl, that would turn me off you completely and unless I really liked you I would think you were creepy/stalker material. It's possible she removed the picture in response to your comment because she does like you, and wants to make it clear that she is into you and not involved with other guys. Try to play it cool and see where things go 1
Dontfindme Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 You just need to let this go, and not say anything to her about it - as difficult as it may be. If you bring it up more, you'd be pushing it in my books.
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