quidproquo89 Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 Made the mistake of looking at someones profile on facebook that I dated and she rejected me. Went to work and have been soo bored, had some dickhead try and wind me up because its funny. I've just sunk, try and try but can't get women I like to like me back - i think I can give a lot and have admirable traits, but they can wait to stamp on my heart and never speak to me again. All work and no play, drives me round the bend .
Author quidproquo89 Posted September 28, 2014 Author Posted September 28, 2014 I can't believe I got rejected by a woman who shares the same interests, view points and personality as me. Everything she likes and says, I get it! Yet despite this she blew me off after one date. She's the perfect woman, I've known lots of attractive women, and their not perfect. She was perfect because she has the same personality as me. How could she so bluntly not want anything to do with me. I was bright, funny, smiley, shared stories and asked a lot of open ended questions, but still I'm left in the dirt. Why is she so picky
Author quidproquo89 Posted September 28, 2014 Author Posted September 28, 2014 she said in her rejection text that tha age gap was too big, she even said we have loads in common. She offered friendship. I text her saying I'd like to meet up as mates and she made an excuse and then ignored my next text. Why offer friendship then not actually want to be friends. She doesnt know how bad I feel as I have kept my feelings to myself. I feel like she hasnt even given me a chance. Would you reject somebody who is half good looking and seems to match your personality, interests, point of view, shyness etc. Seems that she is picky and waiting for prince charming who doesnt exist. I made a really good effort to delve into all her interests, family, holidays and with a smile. And all I got was a thanks but your too young
Mister Zen Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 Stop chasing women out of your league.
cerridwen Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 she said in her rejection text that tha age gap was too big, she even said we have loads in common. She offered friendship. I text her saying I'd like to meet up as mates and she made an excuse and then ignored my next text. Why offer friendship then not actually want to be friends. She doesnt know how bad I feel as I have kept my feelings to myself. I feel like she hasnt even given me a chance. Would you reject somebody who is half good looking and seems to match your personality, interests, point of view, shyness etc. Seems that she is picky and waiting for prince charming who doesnt exist. I made a really good effort to delve into all her interests, family, holidays and with a smile. And all I got was a thanks but your too young What's your hygiene like?
Author quidproquo89 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Posted September 29, 2014 I have very good hygiene and I don't believe in leagues. I've had interest from similarly good looking girls before. I just needed a rant 1
Author quidproquo89 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Posted September 29, 2014 Stop chasing women out of your league. never been rejected based on what I look like before
sm2281 Posted September 29, 2014 Posted September 29, 2014 sometimes 2 people are not meant for eachother and some are better at recognizing that early on. Maybe it's not you, maybe it is them. not "out of your league" so to speak, but a possibility is that you are stuck at finding women who are bad for you and maybe broaden your horizions and date other women. Like dating outside of your race, or finding someone online, or maybe someone you normally wouldnt ask out. . . .this is where you evolve and grow. 1
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