Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Ladies, let's be honest. What attracts you to a man physically? Lately I've been feeling like my skin tone has turned off a lot of women of other "races" so to say, and due to my wiry frame that might actually be a turn off too. Then again, I do live in Alabama. I'd like some honest feedback. What would make you intrigued in a man if all you had to go by in a room was his looks?
Gaeta Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I have dated tall, short, skinny, muscular, fat, fit, bald, long hair, beard, baby face, ugly face, white, black, brown, classy, sporty, rugged. There is no way of knowing what will attract me next. It's a surprise every time. 4
bebe23 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Hi, I'm brand new to this forum. I personally can't pinpoint exactly what it is, but if you're talking purely physical it would be a guy's "symmetry" in both face and physique. I don't care for extremes in physique- either super obese, skeletally skinny or a huge bodybuilder type with bumpy muscles. Anyone average is fine. I love slightly chubby guys or fit/slim, all the same. I DO have a thing for dark hair, eyes and darker/tanned skin myself. I think the reason for that is that I'm blonde and fair-skinned. Studies show that us women are more attracted to guys that are genetically dissimilar to us.
Assasda Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Doesnt matter what you look like man. That fact that youre insecure about your "Skintone" is the fact that they probabaly dont like you more than anything else 1
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 Doesnt matter what you look like man. That fact that youre insecure about your "Skintone" is the fact that they probabaly dont like you more than anything else Not going to lie. That does breed insecurity. Way to point that out.
CaliGuy Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Most women prefer personality over looks. If you have a good personality, then looks will matter a lot less. Smile a lot. Have a great sense of humor. Make her feel comfortable around you. Be kind, considerate (ie: not a jerk). The rest of the magic will work itself out. 1
chimpanA-2-chimpanZ Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I find square jaws super sexy. I like a six-pack (I have a mild one; I'm a pretty intense athlete). But honestly, if I've fallen for the guy, I'm turned on by everything about him even if he's short and balding and pimply and whatever. Once that emotional connection sets in I'm his completely.
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 However, it's also not JUST that. It's the culture. How would you expect rural areas in South Alabama to be? A bunch of intelligent minded folks with progressive thinking? No, it's a bunch of post-Civil war Confederate flag waving rebels who want to hold on to tradition. When you are literally surrounded by this on the daily...it does play into the conscience.
Gaeta Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 However, it's also not JUST that. It's the culture. Would you explain when you say it turns off women of other races.
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 I guess I worded it wrong, to be precise. I'm asking about what physical features attract women due to a hang-up I have about my area, when in reality it probably has nothing to do with their attraction, but rather how they were taught and raised. Deep South rural culture in a town that socially segregates and discourages interracial dating to the point of familial disownment might scare a few people into not wanting to date guys of my skintone. Not only that, due to my generally wiry aesthetic features and laidback, "nerdy" attitude, I don't' get looks from the African American women as well. In short, my choices, as a majority in my town are either the rural country Southern girls...or the ghetto-fied girls, race be damned. It's a stereotype, but it's a pretty accurate description of my area.
SomeDude16 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Women like confidence: You could have the best body but if your extremely passive and Beta you won't attract any women. Confidence in yourself and your appearance and women will be attracted. As far as muscle groups go, I'd say your basic vanity muscles. Biceps, Triceps, Pectorals, calves, abs, obliques, quads. I don't know what your motivation for the question is, but if you're looking for self improvement I will tell you right now don't do it just to attract women. Do it for yourself or you will drive yourself crazy. Just my 2 cents. 1
CharlieFox Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Have an ass. You can never go wrong with an ass. 2
Gaeta Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I'm asking about what physical features attract women due to a hang-up I have about my area, when in reality it probably has nothing to do with their attraction, but rather how they were taught and raised. Well I cannot say much about your area and the hang-ups there. I am French Canadian. We have our own hang-ups here but I don't care, I like what I like, I like dating outside my race and I don't care what the world has to say about it.
Mister Zen Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Whatever is most popular in TV and movies.
Michelle ma Belle Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 It's hard to list just the physical traits that capture my attention because at the end of the day, for ME, it's such a small part of the equation. There is also something unseen but felt that draws people together. It's easy to look across a crowded room and immediately identify the men who on looks alone appeal to me but I can also pinpoint men that don't necessarily fit my physical type but their energy is intoxicating. It's a mystery And to answer your question, my go-to physical type is usually tall, dark hair and features (European), facial hair (LOVE facial hair), great smile and gorgeous eyes and a butt that fills in a pair of pants.
Tayla Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Last time I took Biology these were physical parts of the human male. A Good Heart A Good Smile A Good Stature in Public- walks upright Artistic hands Lean Body the problem is the moment a conversation ensues the Person could be mental, or physically abusive and that is where Don't judge a book by its cover holds true.
ThaWholigan Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Echo a few statements here - girls really do like a guys ass . If we're speaking purely on physical traits, ones that I've observed to be a bit more popular with women than others is usually a degree of facial symmetry, V-taper body shape, and expressive eyes. Can't go too far wrong with 6-pack and toned muscles, but just to a decent level of fitness - doesn't have to be athlete/bodybuilder level unless you actually want to do that sh*t. Oh, and speaking personally, if I were you I wouldn't worry too much about your skintone affecting your chances. Usually there's at least a few things about us that would turn off some girls. I know there is in my case, but it's just a matter of accepting that you won't be everyone's cuppa. There's more girls out there than you can imagine - don't set a limit on yourself because of how you perceive yourself - instead, change how you perceive yourself. You'd be surprised - in fact, if most guys did this, they would all be surprised too. 3
Priv Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 And to answer your question, my go-to physical type is usually tall, dark hair and features (European), facial hair (LOVE facial hair), great smile and gorgeous eyes and a butt that fills in a pair of pants. How many of those do you have in Canada? got those except the dark hair. I think we should create a 'consolidated discussion about hair colour; or why blonde men are just plain better'.
ComingInHot Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 Physically. .. beauty appears to me in all sorts of shapes and tones. What attracks me is an Alpha type male. But I like strength, to be picked up and twirled around. I'm small enough where most can do that.
Phoe Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 I like a guy who appears clean, isn't obese, appears healthy, has a friendly smile. The only MUST HAVE feature is a penis. You MUST have a penis in order to date me, lol. 6
BlueIris Posted September 28, 2014 Posted September 28, 2014 I like a guy who appears clean, isn't obese, appears healthy, has a friendly smile. The only MUST HAVE feature is a penis. You MUST have a penis in order to date me, lol. HAHA! Best post of the week. 2
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