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Do i make contact or continue NC?????


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I split with me g/f about 5 months ago,she ended it, i really miss her, and the last time we spoke we fell out big time, anyway, its her birthday soon and i really wanna wish her happy birthday. I know theres no point to it really but i feel its a good excuse to contact her, or should i just continue NC? im really unsure. She'll think its strange the last time we spoke i was callin her all the names under the sun, and now im wishing her happy bday, but.......

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As time moves on, people forget. I don't think she'll continue to hold a grudge about something you said 5 months ago. Write her and email, saying Happy Bday. Don't ask her what she's been up to. Just let her know that you still care and think about her but at the same time not being pushy by asking her about her life without you. Keep it short and simple. If she replies asking about how your doing then you have the green light. but since she broke it off. A nice Happy Birthday will do just fine.

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