Hopeful30 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 If a beautiful, smart and easy-going woman is usually single, or only has short relationships (less than a year), what's the first thing that pops into a man's head as to why she remains single time and again? (Do you assume she's too picky? Bad in bed? Secretly psycho? etc). Thanks!
GemmaUK Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I'm a woman but if a woman is asking that question I would think she felt insecure and if she feels like that it could be apparent to potential dates. 1
dispatch3d Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 There's a bunch of hot single girls in the group I hang out in regularly. I just assume they aren't looking for anything serious, or haven't found anyone they like that much yet. As far as short relationships that could be caused for a few reasons I guess. She could have just not found anyone she wanted to commit to yet. She could be awful to date so the guy has to break up with them quickly. Orrrr she could just be doing a poor job at picking out good guys. Anyhow it fits pretty far into the "I don't give a ****" category for me as far as things I like for in a girl. 1
Diezel Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 If she were so "easy-going", she probably wouldn't have that many short relationships. Let me guess, OP, this question is about you?
Keenly Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Men don't really jump to conclusions about stuff like that. I think that's more of a woman's line of reasoning. 3
fortyninethousand322 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 If a beautiful, smart and easy-going woman is usually single, or only has short relationships (less than a year), what's the first thing that pops into a man's head as to why she remains single time and again? (Do you assume she's too picky? Bad in bed? Secretly psycho? etc). Thanks! She's not really single. Or she has very high standards that I can't in any way meet. Having high standards isn't a bad thing by the way. If you have a lot to offer you should demand the same in return. 1
carhill Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 In my demographic, women are single generally because they choose to be, so my default would be she chooses to be single. Given the relative ease these days of moving from relationship to relationship and marriage to marriage or anything intermixed, if her behavior bore out the assertions, e.g. smart and easy-going, then I would see it merely as signs of the times. She's single and likes to mingle. 1
LoneIsland Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Hmmm, smart girls don't like sex. Probably too busy reading poetry, playing violin, or what nots.
Author Hopeful30 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 Hmmm, smart girls don't like sex. Probably too busy reading poetry, playing violin, or what nots. Oh how wrong you are about that my friend lol
StanMusial Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 If a beautiful, smart and easy-going woman is usually single, or only has short relationships (less than a year), what's the first thing that pops into a man's head as to why she remains single time and again? (Do you assume she's too picky? Bad in bed? Secretly psycho? etc). Thanks! I have literally never met any girl that fits this description. My fiance fits this description but she was only single for a year before I met her. I do know attractive women that are chronically single, but I wouldn't describe any of them as "easy-going". I imagine the girl in the description probably doesn't have an active social life, or she is difficult to get along with, or she is otherwise "pricing herself out of the market" .
Mr Scorpio Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I would not assume anything. Relationships can be tricky to find and even harder to maintain. Maybe she doesn't want a relationship at all. Maybe she has a club foot or webbed toes. Maybe she is a succubus?
Woggle Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 It doesn't say anything. There are glaring red flags such as past cheating but this doesn't say anything. I would have to get to know her better.
OwMyEyeball Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 When I'm on the prowl - which is seldom, but the best times of my life - I don't assess and analyze. I don't ask myself those kinds of questions or turn those types of comments into reasons for further inquiry. If she's perpetually single or holds relationships for <1 year due to characteristics that I find unappealing, then those characteristics will come to surface pretty quickly on their own without reference to self-reported history. I've found there can be a very wide gulf between what a person openly believes they are and what I believe them to be. After all, it's subjective. I'm sure it goes the other way, too.
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