LoneIsland Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 (i am sure you are a girl) Nope, I can show you I am a real man if you want to check, lol.
No Limit Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 He liked you at the very beginning, but you weren't into him and that showed itself to him by your lack of ambition to give something back to him for all his efforts. Now he's decided that you're not worth it anymore, and is playing you on the side. Just move on, and learn to say "no" to people you aren't interested in to spare them the waste of time.
Author liove Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 Nope, I can show you I am a real man if you want to check, lol. Lol now i understand muuuch better! I couldnt get it how a girl can be so low and so easy. Bbut she was a man actually! lol
Author liove Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 He liked you at the very beginning, but you weren't into him and that showed itself to him by your lack of ambition to give something back to him for all his efforts. Now he's decided that you're not worth it anymore, and is playing you on the side. Just move on, and learn to say "no" to people you aren't interested in to spare them the waste of time. I know that but he is still interested so i guess if i prove him i care, maybe he will change his mind. If not he is not worth it
LoneIsland Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Lol now i understand muuuch better! I couldnt get it how a girl can be so low and so easy. Bbut she was a man actually! lol A girl is easy when she fails enough times. Time is a great teacher of prostitutes.
boilingpoint Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 A girl is easy when she fails enough times. Time is a great teacher of prostitutes. Ha, that's true I guess. Same goes for guys by dropping their standards etc. OP - there's nothing you can do at the moment. I hate it when someone you date stops replying - it's not a nice feeling at all, it makes you want them more and at the same time means they've decided they're less into you for whatever reason. BUT absence makes the heart grow fonder - so try get your mind off it and leave him be. If he doesn't appreciate your presence, make him appreciate your absence. If you haven't put him off too much, he'll be back in touch at some point. Also, say what you mean next time. Don't play games...
Fondue Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 If you kept rejecting his advances and kept shooting them down, and admittedly liking to "play games," how could you fault him for walking away? Essentially when it came to his advances/interst: you kept saying "NO." He waited (long enough) for you to say, "YES," but it never came. So he walked. That's what happens when you're playing games instead of actually trying to connect with a person. No matter how attractive you ***MIGHT*** be, those hoops you make a man jump through are simply not worth it. Take it as a lesson learned and move on.
Fondue Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I know that but he is still interested so i guess if i prove him i care, maybe he will change his mind. If not he is not worth it See? Your attitude is awful. WHat makes you think YOU'RE worth it? You've put obstacles in his way the entire time. Why do you think HE needs to wait for you and put up with your games? Don't blame this on him. You're clearly the one who put a halt on this relationship. 1
LoneIsland Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 WHat makes you think YOU'RE worth it? She's like a model. I think the idea is that a model like woman is worth more than 5 free meals. But the trouble is the guy couldn't work out how many more free meals it involves, could be 50, could be 500, could be 5000. What it takes is a man willing to gamble big. Those are few and far between. From the look of things, the guy being discussed could be cutting his losses.
Fondue Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 She's like a model. I think the idea is that a model like woman is worth more than 5 free meals. But the trouble is the guy couldn't work out how many more free meals it involves, could be 50, could be 500, could be 5000. What it takes is a man willing to gamble big. Those are few and far between. From the look of things, the guy being discussed could be cutting his losses. I went on a few dates with a girl who was model-type. Simply stunning. Top to bottom. Great EVERYTHING. People were turning heads when I was with her. I got rid of her QUICK. I kicked her out of my bedroom as a final "goodbye." Same head games as the OP. Couldn't tolerate that crap. No matter how attractive a person is, if their personality/character is crap, it will never be worth it. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I'm sorry but you ALL sound exhausting!
Author liove Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 Nevermind. He answered. We will see each other tomorrow.
Tayken Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Nevermind. He answered. We will see each other tomorrow.
Diezel Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Nevermind. He answered. We will see each other tomorrow. Do the same thing you did last time. Invite him into your house and then give a giant disclaimer. See if it works again.
LoneIsland Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Nevermind. He answered. We will see each other tomorrow. Did you text him "sexy times" ?
Cristo Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 TL;DR version: Socially awkward guy meets socially awkward girl. Then very strange things happen. The end.
Keenly Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 This is so stereotypical that sitcoms make entire episodes about crap like this. Guy likes girl. Guy pursues girl. Girl pretends to be Interested. Girl does the absolute bare minimum. Guy gets tired of it, leaves the situation and stops contact. Girl gets sad she isn't getting the attention. Girl pretends to show interest to get the stream of attention back. Repeat. Leave him alone. 2
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