Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Okay, so a girl says she likes you...you go in for sex, and she refuses, you said okay, maybe she's taking it slow. You then find out she's having sex with other dudes. You ask her why she rejected sex she said she thinks it would make things weird between us. But, she isn't friendzoning you, according to her. Tell me, is that a friendzone or not? For a buddy of mine.
Candy_Pants Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Tell your buddy that she's not ****ing you because she doesn't want to **** you. Or your buddy. 2
Michelle ma Belle Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Friendzone my friend. It's not like it's the first time a woman has ever lied 5
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 Tell your buddy that she's not ****ing you because she doesn't want to **** you. Or your buddy. I told him that. But he wanted other people's opinions. Rule of thumb: If a chick doesn't want sex with you on the first date, but you find out she's having regular sex, don't listen to whatever she says... SHE'S FRIENDZONING you. Or more to the point, she's rejecting you but keeping you on a leash in case things don't work out. He's 18, 5 years younger than me and been striking out with women lately. He even said she was complaining about the bad sex to him.
jay1983 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Friendzone my friend. It's not like it's the first time a woman has ever lied Will you marry me Nah I'm kidding. 1
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 Will you marry me Nah I'm kidding. And friendzoned in 3...2...1. Yes, I know, "friendzone" doesn't exist. But it's a better sounding term for "girlfriend with a penis"
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 So fellas and ladies, also a question... If he's not getting sex out of the deal, should he just walk away? He doesn't seem to be interested in a friendship at all with her.
Phoe Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 So fellas and ladies, also a question... If he's not getting sex out of the deal, should he just walk away? He doesn't seem to be interested in a friendship at all with her. Yeah, if he does not want friendship, he should walk away. He will get nowhere with her.
jay1983 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 So fellas and ladies, also a question... If he's not getting sex out of the deal, should he just walk away? He doesn't seem to be interested in a friendship at all with her. Controversial question. lol See if he can stick around and really won't worry about sex or a relationship (whatever he wants) sure, why not. But here's the thing. He might stick around in hopes of one day getting what he wants, kiss her ass, do things she asks for, hoping she'll like him (which she never will lol) and become her little bitch. She'll call him when things go bad with who she's banging and use he's shirt to dry her tears, nothing more. It's a catch 42 lol
jay1983 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 If he's cool with platonic friendship, why not stick around? That's about all he's going to get unless she sleeps with him in a moment of weakness one day. It's not worth sticking around on the hopes of sex though. Right, but freaking white knights be lying to themselves. "No I just like being there for her, I don't wanna sleep with her" lol 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 So fellas and ladies, also a question... If he's not getting sex out of the deal, should he just walk away? He doesn't seem to be interested in a friendship at all with her. I think you answered your own question 3
Candy_Pants Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 So fellas and ladies, also a question... If he's not getting sex out of the deal, should he just walk away? He doesn't seem to be interested in a friendship at all with her.Duh. Why would he stick around if he isn't interested in friendship?? That's just asking for resentments and frankly, if he stuck around hoping for scraps he'd look pathetic and not get boned by her anyhow. 1
Candy_Pants Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Right, but freaking white knights be lying to themselves. "No I just like being there for her, I don't wanna sleep with her" lolWell if he doesn't want a friendship and is only sticking around hoping for sex one day, then yeah, he's lying to himself and her. I am a woman. I don't want "friends" who only want to bone me, not actually be a true friend.
jay1983 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Well if he doesn't want a friendship and is only sticking around hoping for sex one day, then yeah, he's lying to himself and her. I am a woman. I don't want "friends" who only want to bone me, not actually be a true friend. I think it's psychological. They don't know. They tell themselves, they don't care about sex, when subconsciously, they do. Or they're hoping for some kind of good karma. (date her friend) I think it's like when women say they want a nice guy, but.........you know the rest. lol I don't know, I'm not a shrink, just a thought. lol
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 Well if he doesn't want a friendship and is only sticking around hoping for sex one day, then yeah, he's lying to himself and her. I am a woman. I don't want "friends" who only want to bone me, not actually be a true friend. Sorry, Candy Pants, but unless you had a great personality... I would totally bone you and would get with you for that reason alone, no questions asked. Just being honest.
Candy_Pants Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I think it's psychological. They don't know. They tell themselves, they don't care about sex, when subconsciously, they do. Or they're hoping for some kind of good karma. (date her friend) I think it's like when women say they want a nice guy, but.........you know the rest. lol I don't know, I'm not a shrink, just a thought. lolGuys who stick around and "accept" friendship while secretly hoping, and doing favors, and praying for sympathy/drunk/regretted sex are NOT nice guys. They are tools. And they are doing nobody any favors. 3
jay1983 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Guys who stick around and "accept" friendship while secretly hoping, and doing favors, and praying for sympathy/drunk/regretted sex are NOT nice guys. They are tools. And they are doing nobody any favors. I know that hun, but they don't. It's deeper than that. It's like if I say, girls who say they like nice guys, but date bad boys don't wanna be treated well. It maybe true on reality level, but it's not that simple for them.
Candy_Pants Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 Sorry, Candy Pants, but unless you had a great personality... I would totally bone you and would get with you for that reason alone, no questions asked. Just being honest.I have a fantastic personality. And am glad not all men are so narrow minded. 2
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 I know that hun, but they don't. It's deeper than that. It's like if I say, girls who say they like nice guys, but date bad boys don't wanna be treated well. It maybe true on reality level, but it's not that simple for them. That was the case with this girl my buddy's into. She says he's a nice guy and she finds him cute... But the guy's she's screwing...your typical beefcakes. Sadly enough she wants a relationship with these guys. Girls say "we want a nice guy" What they want is... A guy they are attracted to to be nice to them. 1
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 I have a fantastic personality. And am glad not all men are so narrow minded. I have female friends. But if I said I wanted to be just your friend, I'd be lying. I would NOT turn down an opportunity to go on a date with you simply because you're physically attractive. Now if you turned out to have a great personality...that would be great. But I remember that you said you didn't date black guys so it wouldn't happen anyway. At least I'm not saying I'll be your best friend when that's not in my agenda. Gotta appreciate the honesty.
guest569 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I wouldn't want to be friends after that sort of experience! It's not very nice of her.. I would walk away.
jay1983 Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 That was the case with this girl my buddy's into. She says he's a nice guy and she finds him cute... But the guy's she's screwing...your typical beefcakes. Sadly enough she wants a relationship with these guys. Girls say "we want a nice guy" What they want is... A guy they are attracted to to be nice to them. Show this thread to your friend and hopefully he learns something. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/495200-i-never-met-guy-like 1
Author Natsu21 Posted September 27, 2014 Author Posted September 27, 2014 I'm madly attracted to this girl with a great personality, but she's a lesbian. It's weird tho. I don't feel emasculated when I'm around her and I enjoy our friendship. The only reason I am not bothered by our friendship is because she is an amazing friend, she also doesn't like guys so there's no competition with other men. She, and a few other girls, I'm legitimate friends with, but they bring something to the table that I can't just find anywhere else. Actually, I stay friends with my REALLY good looking friends but seem to go out with a lot of the more overweight girls. I've noticed that lately.
Candy_Pants Posted September 27, 2014 Posted September 27, 2014 I have female friends. But if I said I wanted to be just your friend, I'd be lying. I would NOT turn down an opportunity to go on a date with you simply because you're physically attractive. Now if you turned out to have a great personality...that would be great. But I remember that you said you didn't date black guys so it wouldn't happen anyway. At least I'm not saying I'll be your best friend when that's not in my agenda. Gotta appreciate the honesty.Oh I have no problems with honesty. In fact I commend those men who are honest with themselves like you are being. As for dating black guys...it's not impossible, just hasn't happened . a BUT now a single, separated mother over the age of 22 so I might as well be dead .
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