SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 If that title doesn't draw in views, nothing will. Ha. So, I wrote a joking reply to a woman on OK Cupid whose moniker references SIZE. Whenever I see profiles directly aimed at casual sex, I always assume it's probably a troll. Well, she/he/it responded and a witty repartee soon followed. The personality actually seems really cool and really into me. Dilemma: I'm an AVERAGE guy. Thick enough for Magnums, as a previous girlfriend suggested but you won't see me gracing the covers of any niche porn anytime soon. I say this because this girl "likes" Magnums. She has stated in her profile that this is what she spends "a lot of time thinking about". As a guy, out of a relationship that didn't end well, the prospect of NSA sex with a voluptuous woman seems appealing but I've never really "performed" well in ONS circumstances. I'm more emotionally wired, I suppose. She(if it is indeed a woman) seems keen on me. Should I just bite the bullet and try to set something up with her? Or... Is this just bad news and should I focus on healthier prospects?
LoneIsland Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 What size are we looking at ? Would you still be ok with the size of an elephant ?
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 What size are we looking at ? Would you still be ok with the size of an elephant ? Not sure I understand your questions? 1
PegNosePete Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 Err, do what you want bro. Why are you asking us if you should hit it or not?
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 Honestly, I would prefer to meet someone who I could have a relationship with... 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 If NSA is what you're both after, why not simply just ask her point black how big she likes her partners? By the way, the reality is, Magnum condoms aren't much bigger than regular condoms, sorry to say. 1
PegNosePete Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 OK, so err what is your question? Do you want to hit this girl up for sex? If so then go ahead. If not then don't. Could you miss out on a nice girl because you're hitting someone you don't have a future with? Of course. Could you bang this girl til she's blue in the face and then meet your perfect women the week after and end up happily married? Sure you could. Life is a gamble, you pays your money you takes your chances. Nobody has a crystal ball to see the future.
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 Yes, I'm aware of the Magnum myth. But I feel pointing that out to her is like saying "You know, I have a small wee-wee." I do think it might be helpful to address size with her since it seems to be her concern. I'm a little worried for myself. I'm not good with NSA. At the same time, I think it might be good for me, at the present moment.
LoneIsland Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) Honestly, I would prefer to meet someone who I could have a relationship with... The general belief is that a woman will be more emotional after sex when she's "unlocked". So a relationship is more probable after sex than before sex. Of course, there are no guarantees. But if you do a good job in sex and you seem like the kind of guy she wants, your chance of relationship increases. If you are small, you could always substitute it with a fist, lol. Edited September 26, 2014 by LoneIsland 1
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 The general belief is that a woman will be more emotional after sex when she's "unlocked". So a relationship is more probable after sex than before sex. Of course, there are no guarantees. But if you do a good job in sex and you seem like the kind of guy she wants, your chance of relationship increases. Based on what you're telling me and judging from some things in her profile, I wonder if there's really any difference between what this woman wants and what any woman wants. She stipulates that she prefers Monogamy and that she is seeking Casual Sex, Long Term Relationship. However, her profile picture reveals no face. So, it's as if she's coming at it from a different angle. I think I'd at least like to meet her...
LoneIsland Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 Yes, she's like every other woman. Except either her appetite is higher than others or she hasn't been able to find anyone to fulfiller her. So I reckon her going on these sites is just her way of trying harder.
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 Yes, she's like every other woman. Except either her appetite is higher than others or she hasn't been able to find anyone to fulfiller her. So I reckon her going on these sites is just her way of trying harder. Yes, she describes her appetite as insatiable and admits to having a lot of sex. That's the other thing---I don't know if I should mess with someone like that. A friend of mine who has a pretty voracious appetite contracted a venereal disease. Part of the territory, I suppose. Plus, I enjoy going down on women and I don't think I'd do it with this woman.
mrs rubble Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 Not sure I understand your questions? When I first read your title I thought you were meaning you were considering a huge lady not a lady who likes large parts! Just do it! Haha! 3
ja123 Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 As a guy, out of a relationship that didn't end well, the prospect of NSA sex with a voluptuous woman seems appealing but I've never really "performed" well in ONS circumstances. I'm more emotionally wired, I suppose. Honestly, I would prefer to meet someone who I could have a relationship with... So you really shouldn't do this. Stop corresponding with her/he/it. I'd be highly suspect of a woman (if she is a woman) who posts for casual on a dating site. Women who don't post for casual get flooded with messages for sex. Can you imagine this one? You need to be careful of diseases these days. 2
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 So you really shouldn't do this. Stop corresponding with her/he/it. I'd be highly suspect of a woman (if she is a woman) who posts for casual on a dating site. Women who don't post for casual get flooded with messages for sex. Can you imagine this one? You need to be careful of diseases these days. Good point(s). 2
LoneIsland Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 What she says and what is real maybe 2 different things. There's no way to tell until you are in there in the trenches. If her petite is really beyond the the capability of any single man, then a relationship is unlikely, unless something more exotic is involved. Such as a double team or a treble team with other men. I am sure an army squad can bring her down, no problems.
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 Is the "trenches" in a bar with her? Or is it the day after at the Health Clinic? 1
LoneIsland Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 Naturally the trenches are deeper than bars. You can find those deep in the enemy territory.
Author SycamoreCircle Posted September 26, 2014 Author Posted September 26, 2014 Naturally the trenches are deeper than bars. You can find those deep in the enemy territory. Well, that's just it---after my last relationship, I think I need some exposure to healthy, trustworthy women. No more enemies for me...
LoneIsland Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 I believe they will always be your enemy. But my view is somewhat tainted.
Art_Critic Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 IMO..unless you met her on a sex site then I think the profile is fake.. who does that ? and if it was for real would you really want to go out with someone who just went out with another guy 3 hrs before.. Most likley someone on a web forum reporting back to his flock how many hits he could get by mentioning Magnums in his fake girl profile... 3
Priv Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) I am sure an army squad can bring her down, no problems. You give the army too much credit. This sounds more like a job for firemen with their hoses and stuff. Edited September 26, 2014 by Priv 2
Michelle ma Belle Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 So you really shouldn't do this. Stop corresponding with her/he/it. I'd be highly suspect of a woman (if she is a woman) who posts for casual on a dating site. Women who don't post for casual get flooded with messages for sex. Can you imagine this one? You need to be careful of diseases these days. I concur. There are plenty of legit sites for nymphomaniacs and sexual deviants with fetish appetites looking to be fed with NSA and ONS. Having a profile on any of those more risque sites is like shooting fish in a barrel for heaven's sake! Choosing to troll on a dating site doesn't make much sense unless he/she/it is looking for a serious laugh. Run. Step away from the computer and run my friend. 3
Gloria25 Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 I don't get "size queens"... I'm a woman, and trust me - size isn't the only thing that's gonna get you off...You need him to know "how" to use it. I think "size queens" either must be ignorant about their bodies and how to get off, or have some kind of fetish where they want to be stretched out - either way, I think they are ridiculous. 1
BlueIris Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) I agree to step away, but then I can see the intrigue too. After all, Mae West was kind of like that, but considered a comedienne. If you meet her, please report. Edited September 26, 2014 by BlueIris
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