Grevensteiner Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 I know a girl for 3 months. She friendzoned me, then we've been kissing a couple of times, and she told me she could fall in love with me but doesnt want a relationship. Then she said no kissing on each meeting. Meanwhile she found another guy, shes been going to his place dor two days, he did to her place. She told me they didnt have sex, but kissing, yes indeed. She also told me theyre too different to form a deeper relationship. And he comes to her place this weekend. She said hes so unavailable that it excites her. Thats a little too much for me, so after my kind of needy speech I initiated no contact. She wrote maybe once to me, asking do we end our relationship? I said its stupid but never contacted her again. Why is that so hard to maintain no contact? Today I woke up with a very strong temptation of meeting with her after work, I could. I mean, she just doesnt care, completely, she even kind of told me that. That hurts, but why is that so difficult? I understand pain after LTR, but this?
Reels Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 Well, she seems like a swinger. Listen to your brain, and deep inside your heart. Anyone would hate her. You should stop caring too. 1
Justaguy30 Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 The fact that she toys with you tells me you need to get her out of your life for good. Also the fact that she likes how this other guy is kind of unavailable means that she likes playing games. Sounds like she just wants to be single and that's fine. You have strong feelings for her and she doesn't have those feelings for you which means you would always be hurt. Move on and find someone who wants an actual relationship. Also always take what a woman says about her feelings very seriously. If she said she doesn't care she doesn't and she will never consider your feelings in her decision making.
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