kellypinkyz Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 So we dated for a few weeks then we broke up because we dated too soon before we get to know more about each other (he wants me to get to know him as a friend first), and because he said he will go to the boot camp soon so he doesn't want to think about how far we are. So we agreed to be friends and if we meant to be, then we are. After a few hours after broke up, he asked me to go eat. I said I can't. And at night time, he asked me to go watch movie. So i said yes. It was fine. The next day, I asked him to go eat. He did. We didn't talk much because I know he's a football freak so I don't want to bother him. It was great. After that, we didn't text much. I thought he gonna stop texting me. But he text me the night after that until yesterday. Just all about how is your day, or how is work. Last night, he asked me is it ok for him to cuddle with me? I said not sure. And here is my problem. It makes me feel like I'm still in relationship with him even I try to treat him as a friend :\ Btw, today he stops texting me
veggirl Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 You sound attached and he has said he doesn't want that. It'd be in your best interest to stop hanging out with him, because you don't see him as a friend. He doesn't want a 'ball & chain' back home when he leaves for boot camp...you shouldn't waste your time with him, find a guy who does want a relationship. 2
CarrieT Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 Last night, he asked me is it ok for him to cuddle with me? I said not sure. And here is my problem. It makes me feel like I'm still in relationship with him even I try to treat him as a friend :\ Btw, today he stops texting me Do you cuddle with all your friends? Be glad he stopped texting. And if/when he texts again, ignore it. You need to go No Contact. He is trying to offer breadcrumbs and is sending mixed messages = i.e., game-playing. There are better than this out and you don't have to put up with this type of wishy-washy behavior.
smackie9 Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 Most likely he was wanting to tag ya, and since you told him no not really, he has no time for you. Probably called up another girl to fill his sexual needs.
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