I need some urgent advice!!

[caveman1989]

Hello everyone,

 

I got dumped by my gf after an 8 month relationship. We loved eachother very much. She was the one who cared more and I always used to think if we ever broke up ill be the one leaving her. I started taking her for granted. She was asthmatic and over the period of time I did not answer at her beck and call every time she had an attack so basically i started drving her away. I would fight with her over nothing and she got the impression i dont want her anymore which she even said once to me. Anyway slowly but surely her feelings didnt stay the same and one day she said that she cant do it anymore and that she wants to say Goodbye. She let me off easy but I was devastated and realized what i did. It has been 2 and a half months since the breakup and i was doing NC in hops that she would contact me once she misses me.. but she never did so about 2 weeks ago i contacted her via call.. tried hard not to sound broken and we talked about life and she even said 'it was really nice talking to me'. I started sending her morning texts after that and she would reply back. I thought if i kept doing it long enough she would ultimately come back to me but after one week she suddenly changed her tone and said that she cant talk to me anymore and doenst want to sound rude. I went to nc again and its been a week now. I really want her back and i have realized my mistakes and will treat her better this time around. What do you guys think.. will she contact me? i have blocked her on whatsapp as she said she used to look at my profile pics after the breakup. Please help me guys

Thanks

[preraph]

If you really believe your attitude has changed about what drove her away, then you have got to spill your guts and tell her that you really screwed up and specifically about her asthma and not being there for her, etc. You have to really explain and she might or might not accept you back.