hii Posted September 24, 2014 Posted September 24, 2014 I have been dating this guy online for like 4 months now but he has been ignoring me for like 22 days now. I don't know why, whenever i text him he will read it a couple days later and never reply, but when I send it, it says delivered meaning hes on his phone. we were so close!!! and whenever he can't talk he always says im sorry i was busy but 22 days is too much. Is this his way of breaking up with me?
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 24, 2014 Posted September 24, 2014 You know him better than us... i would say he probably got caught be his mate. And will not attempt communication. So it looks like to me your out in the cold.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 24, 2014 Posted September 24, 2014 Sorry, OP, but yes...I think you can assume it's over now. He was immature and disrespectful by not even bothering to communicate that to you. I'd stop contacting him and try to date someone locally instead.
d0nnivain Posted September 24, 2014 Posted September 24, 2014 It might be his way of breaking it off. I'm not sure how after 4 months you can be close to someone you only know virtually. In LDRs all you have is communication. If that's gone, so is your connection. I'd try dating somebody in your own geography.
azureorb Posted September 24, 2014 Posted September 24, 2014 Have you met him before? If not, he's not your boyfriend or anything remotely close to it. Have you only met him a few times? Again, he's not your boyfriend. With tons of talking and routine Skyping, you Could say he's Kinda a boyfriend in that case, but not so much. If you've met him a lot, or a handful of times with CONSTANT talking & vid-cam coorespondance for Months -- yeah, it's really bad he's brushing you off. But just realize -- LD relationships DON'T WORK. They work about as often as a super-drunk getting drunk at the bar every night and driving home every night over 5 miles from the bar and Never getting pulled over in 20 years of doing that. It can happen to said super-drunks -- and admittedly a bit heroic in an odd sense -- but it's a dumb thing to do.
emi Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 Lol 22 days and you still dont realize your situation? This guy is an *******, he doesnt even have a gut to say directly to you he wants to out
Mizz Layta Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 He doesn't sound interested and him ignoring your attempts to contact him is as clear he is making it to be. I know its hard but it would be best to let it go and move. Easier said than done. Have you actually met this guy in person ?
leavesonautumn Posted September 25, 2014 Posted September 25, 2014 22 days? He's not your boyfriend anymore. He's clearly ignoring you. Time to move on and meet someone who is attainable.
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