acidrein_08 Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 Me and my ex girlfriend broke up 1 month ago today after a 15 month relationship. If you haven't read my first post then just to tell you I was completely devastated when she broke up with me and was in really bad shape for an entire week. These past three weeks though have really opened my eyes and made me realize that the break up was probably the best thing for us and I have really started moving on. I am hanging out with my friends all the time and enjoying the free time that I now have without my ex. Even though sometimes I think about her and wonder where she is or what she is doing I never let it bother me and try to think about other things. That first week was so hard for me becuase I didn't want to let go and we contacted each other a few times for some really long conversations! I thought I could somehow convince her we were perfect and that she would come back but it doesn't work like that. The last time we talked (about a week and a half ago) I told her that no matter what breaking up was the best thing that could have happened becuase we both needed some time to realize what we did wrong and learn a lesson from it and I also told her that I couldn't be friends with her right now becuase it would be to hard for me. So No Contact is the solution to moving on! Of coarse I still think about what it would be like if we were together sometimes and how much fun we could be having but I know that in time, that will pass. So to everyone here on LoveShack I want to tell you that there is hope! I have been happy and enjoying life for the past 3 weeks! So keep your heads up as we move on together, don't ever think you aren't good enough, quit blaming yourself and get up off the floor and start living again. There ARE MORE GIRLS/GUYS OUT THERE! I have faith in each and every one of you and I wish you the best of luck. Learn from your mistakes and move on, what doesn't kill us makes us stronger! God Bless all of you.
Pocky Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 Originally posted by acidrein_08 I have been happy and enjoying life for the past 3 weeks! Great!
jc Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 Hey acidrein, I've been following your posts and it seems like you have made such a big improvement, I'm very happy for you! I hope I eventually get to the same place...only it seems to be taking a little longer in my case. I went NC for two weeks then broke it last night by calling him to talk...big mistake. Feel very sad and alone now, but it is comforting to know that others on the site (like you) are living life again. Good luck
Author acidrein_08 Posted March 8, 2005 Author Posted March 8, 2005 Hey JC I know exactly how you feel man, I know every situation is different but I know the outcome is going to be the same. You will be fine! I know it is hard to not contact your ex but it will get easier! Keep checking back here at Loveshack all of these people are great and have been through it and we all can learn and grow together as one big family. You keep your head up, forgot about him and move on, there will be someone perfect for you out there, I promise!
Sukotto Posted March 8, 2005 Posted March 8, 2005 I have both good and bad times. Our first date was 3 years ago in a few days and thats starting to get me down but I'm sure as soon as its passed I'll be back right as rain. It really does open your eyes when you split after a long relationship at such a young age. I realised that I had been neglecting friends and to be honest I hadn't been doing enough new things with my girlfriend. Now that I've seen how other couples behave I'm certainly not going to make the same mistake twice. I'm sure the next relationship will be much better after all i've learnt.
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