shinealight Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 Why is it so hard getting over someone. I mean we had something special I thought and then I decide to screw things up and now I never really see her much. Yes I did want to go out with her, do not know why since she cheated on her boyfriend with me. What is the best way of getting over someone you really liked?
Crila16 Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 Honestly...time. Also, try to take them off that pedestal that they're probably not even worthy of being on.
acrosstheuniverse Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 Deleting them from your life. Block on facebook, instagram, twitter, your phone etc. Delete all photographs, and messages, burn all photos and e-mails. Make sure you don't bump into them again, and if people try to talk to you about them stop them in their tracks and politely tell them you're not interested anymore. Takes a couple weeks before you start to feel better but you'll recover in no time at all. I find that once I have removed someone from my life and they can't contact me (well, short of setting up new accounts etc.) I can finally breathe a new sigh of relief and focus on me, and my new life without them.
jm2013 Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 If she cheated on her boyfriend with YOU what would stop this woman from cheating on YOU if you were her boyfriend? Think about that a few times. There's somebody out there that I'm sure would be better for you and your future.
me85 Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 Yes. It takes time to "get over" someone. You have to focus on yourself. Hang out with close friends and family. You have to do all the things you love to do, whatever those hobbies are. You have to do your best to stay positive. Find something that makes you smile and cling to it. You can't go down a path of self destruction. You have to make healthy choices in life. You have to believe in yourself and cheer yourself on. You will be just fine. We are only given so much time to live this life. Gota make the best of things while we're here. Right?? (=
travelbug1996 Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 Time++Space ++NC! ===Voila Majic:bunny:
Author shinealight Posted September 23, 2014 Author Posted September 23, 2014 It's hard to get over her when you see her in the pub with someone else who she told me she disliked. Don't worry though i will get there. Thankyou for the advice guys.
Trane Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 Why is it so hard getting over someone. I mean we had something special I thought and then I decide to screw things up and now I never really see her much. Yes I did want to go out with her, do not know why since she cheated on her boyfriend with me. What is the best way of getting over someone you really liked? Time, good friends and positive activities that will lead you to the next love in your life.
Author shinealight Posted September 23, 2014 Author Posted September 23, 2014 I know find another pub which I like just because i can't get over someone. I will get over her, just thought we had something special. Clearly I ment nothing to her. Thanks again. 1
Tayken Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 It's mind over matter i.e. all psychological. Just tune it out and Bob is your uncle. Yes call me heartless if you want
Author shinealight Posted September 23, 2014 Author Posted September 23, 2014 Nope do not think you are heartless think you are right. From someone I liked who made it turn into some dumb affair and then dump me like glue I deff need a new pub. I thought she liked me but nope was after something else. Glad I saw the new her just wish it was easy to get over the past and her. It will be tho.
Elias33 Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 Self improvement and time. Simple yet challenging. 1
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