Akavir Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 I know a girl for 3 months, she's great, beautiful, etc...but well, she drives to some guy for a weekend to a city 500km away, he comes to her, and I haven't spent even one night at her house, she just didn't want to. She says he's a pussy, they have totally different characters, but he's so difficult to pick up that it makes a challange to her and she likes that very much. And I'm a guy she would fall in love into, and that's what she's afraid of. I told her today that we won't meet again, and she just said: "ok", after all that kissing, attachment, even from her side, as far as I saw...Why is no contact that so difficult for me? I can't even sleep, although I know that's the best I could do, and she completely deserves that? How long will this last?
Chi townD Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 You want what you can't have. But, here's the rub. You never had her to begin with. Look, you were filling her time card up. You were flirting with her, kissing her, telling her things that she wanted to hear. You were filling that emotional gap because the other dude wasn't around. She was using you! I mean, you ended the friendship and she acted like it was no skin off her nose. No big deal. How is that fair to you? Dude, let this one go! Trust me, there's a girl out there that can't wait to meet you and spend time with you because there's no other place in the world she would rather be. Time to move on, dude.
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