Am I just really bad?

[violagirl87]

I had dated my ex-boyfriend for like a year, and before him, I wasn't that experienced. When we did anything sexual, he was always able to get off more than once. Now I'm with this new guy, and he can only get off once. This worries me, and I feel inadequate. I've been told that guys having more than one orgasm is not normal. But I'm still really worried that I'm just really bad. If you have and thoughts, I'd love to hear!

[Devildog]

I know I am a one shot kind of guy. Sure, after a break of a half hour or so, I can go at it again, but not without stopping. I don't think it is something you are doing wrong.

[Merin]

I would agree with DD that it isn't something your doing wrong..

 

Everyone is different.. what may *Work* with one guy won't with another.. again, everyone has differnt levels of stamina, and for real what turns one on.. may not for the next.

[alphamale]

every dude is different when it comes to sex and so is every woman. don't sweat it. your' lack of experience is getting the best of you.

[Pendawn]

I think every guy is different. My ex would take at least 20 mins to orgasm, new guy takes about 3 mins flat. To get my Ex to get there twice in one evening took a lot of time and a LOT of work, new guy (who is a bit older) can go twice in the space of about 90 mins. I'm not doing anything different, just the way a guy's body works I guess.

 

Same way some women can cum super quick while other's need a lot of stimulation. Don't feel bad.

[The_Fool]

It's perfectly normal. Sometimes it depends on the guy. Some guys are different with different girls. When I was younger, I could come almost as often as I wanted with just a few minutes of delay. Now, I'm mostly a one-shot kind of guy, no matter the girl. Having more than one in a quick period is something to celebrate, not be ho-hum about.

 

I've only been with one girl where I wasn't able to come at all. If that happens, then both of you should be worried. Otherwise, just enjoy it!