xtaraleksbfx Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 I have this friend who I've been friends with for a while now and I have the biggest crush on him I like him a lot to the point where I go crazy when I'm not with him, and he told me and his friends that he likes me too, and when I'm with him, he acts like we're dating and when I first starting hanging out with him a lot he would send me a text messages every day and even saying cute little stuff like "night sexy" and stuff like that. Now he never texts me and never calls me or asks if I want to come over I haven't talked to him in a few days and that was just because he was online and haven't seen him in over 3 weeks and it's driving me crazy because I like him so much but I feel like he doesn't like me at all. I cry myself to sleep almost every night because of that. Some people tell me that he's just ignoring me because he likes me but that doesn't make any sense, is there something I could do to get his attention again and get him to like me again?
Sckott Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 He may not be so interested in you as to make any serious commitments. If this is bothering you, you'll find that finding other people to engage with may be more fun than waiting for this guy to come along and talk to you.... Good luck.
Jergens92003 Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 Help me figure this guy out.... I had a previous post about this guy at work....he has a girl. Yet, get this....I worked this weekend...Saturday & Sunday - and he came to my office...chatted with me for at least 2 hrs on both days. Is he being just super friendly or is he somewhat interested? We still have this amazing eye contact....I just dunno how to read guys....
Topaze Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 Take a deep breath. Sign up for a speed dating event ...a big one. Book out the two days before just for you. Go shopping and buy a hot new dress. On the day of the event, go to the spa, have a facial, massage and manicure. Get your hair and make up done. Then put on the dress and go to the event with a smile on your face and knocke em dead. You're worth more than this guy who was clearly playing games with you.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 If someone walks into a market, and is handed a sample of some food that looks good but tastes 'off' to them, they aren't going to buy the food no matter what because they simply didn't like it. Nothing is going to make the food change, and no matter what you do to it - its still going to taste 'off' to the person. Offering it up in different packages or presenting it differently isn't going to change anything either. One bite, and it still tastes 'off' to them. Does it taste 'off' to everyone? No! Does it make the food somehow bad? No. Just to this one person. He has a right not to like the food, and should not be obligated to buy if it he doesn't want to. is there something I could do to get his attention again and get him to like me again? No. That's the hardest part for people to understand. Look at it this way: you got his attention by offering something he thought looked good to him, he sampled what you had to offer, and he decided that he didn't want to date you. Nothing you do will change those reasons why he doesn't want to date you. That's no fault of yours, its just that for whatever reasons of his own - he didn't want to date you. Does that make you unloveable? No, it just means he didn't think you were right for him. Does that make him an ass? No. He isn't obligated to date you just because you happen to be a great person offering a great relationship. He could have been more honest with you instead of freezing you out, but I expect he just didn't want to hurt your feelings and enjoys being able to do some flirty contact from time to time. If you want more, and you want this guy to date you - then the only choice you have in the matter is to decide whether you want to continue receiving his mild flirts without dating or whether you want him to stop talking to you altogether so you can get over him. You can let him know how you feel, but other than that you can't control whether or not that will bring him back to you.
Author xtaraleksbfx Posted March 18, 2005 Author Posted March 18, 2005 thanks guys! lol topaze youre funny
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