HGP Posted September 23, 2014 Posted September 23, 2014 I met a girl in the summer who I really hit it off with. We ended up going on three dates. Things got physical but we didn't sleep together. After the third date she had to deal with an ex issue...which of course is usually code for "I'm not into you" so I moved on. Two or three weeks later she gets back in touch with me and tells me that the issue is resolved, that relationship is in her past and she wants to keep seeing me. After talking things over I decided to see where it could go. We ended up seeing each other a couple more times (she wanted to take it slow, probably should have been a red flag) before she went overseas for a few weeks. While she was gone she texted me all the time, sent me a bunch of pictures, and we were going to get together when she got back. She was texting me right up until she got on the plane. While we weren't officially together, I broke it off with another girl I met so I could be with her. When she got home she responded to the first couple texts I sent but then stopped responding altogether. Didn't answer her phone, hasn't responded to texts, nothing for a week and a half now. I tried to reach her one last time on the weekend but now it's pretty obvious I'm not going to hear from her. Let's be realistic, she's probably with someone else. But what really gets me is how long she wasted my time - it was over two months including the time we weren't seeing each other and the time she was out of the country. That and the fact that she hasn't even bothered to tell me it's over. In any case, I'm not really looking for any specific advice, this just really stings is all. Anybody experienced something similar?
preraph Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 Hey, as a woman, I can tell you everyone gets bailed on randomly during their dating lifetime. It's probably as you say, she got focused on someone else. It sucks to be left hanging, but just get busy doing fun things and you'll leave it all behind sooner. Good luck.
smackie9 Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 Next time follow your gut.....should have stuck with your original plan and didn't go back out with her again after you heard "issues with ex". I bet money on it she's back with him. 1
Assasda Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 Should have stayed with that girl that you were wth 1
Gaeta Posted September 26, 2014 Posted September 26, 2014 That sucks and yes it happened to me a few times. It happened to me after 2 weeks, 3 months, and even 6 months dating. It's a sign of weakness in people. It's easier for them to just ignore us than to take 2 minutes to tell us sorry I do not wish to continue. Just think about the other kind of disrespect they're capable of. 2
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