LonelyHero Posted September 22, 2014 Posted September 22, 2014 Well , there is this girl,to which i had expressed my feelings 1.5 years ago. We were dating for like 2 months (no sex, no kisses) , only cuddles and much much talking(Yeah,dating friendzoned). Then she decided that i am her friend and made a relationship with her ex and they are still toghether. I had deleted her from everything and haven't heard of her for 5 months, then she called me and we started communicating again. She now left the city and and lives like 200 Km away and she comes sometimes to have exams for uni. And when she comes we still go out alone , we come close, like she sits on me at the bars , i touch her thighs and we hold hands when i walk her home,but i don't ask her for more. Now that i am reading what i have written , i think that i am really desparate and it's very difficult to forget her, because my brain thinks that she is my 10, and we keep in touch. My plan was , keep her close and show her what she lost , but i don't think that it will ever work... Anyone had something similar?
Assasda Posted September 22, 2014 Posted September 22, 2014 You are her lapdog and you will always be her lapdog. She barely has any respect for you as a man. And you are like an A-sexual friend that she keeps around. Good luck 1
Author LonelyHero Posted September 22, 2014 Author Posted September 22, 2014 You are her lapdog and you will always be her lapdog. She barely has any respect for you as a man. And you are like an A-sexual friend that she keeps around. Good luck Yes, it's good to face the truth sometimes. I just can't understand that i lost and i find mylself comparing to her boyfriend: Her boyfriend is a drug addict , and she has started smoking weed,too. I have a bachelor degree and i go for masters,i have a well trained body and i am healthy and all he does is doing drugs, playing the electic guitar and spending his parents money. I know that there are other women, but i don't know man, have you ever felt that everyone else is irrelevant when she is nearby? yes i know , i m pathetic.
mammasita Posted September 22, 2014 Posted September 22, 2014 So she's in a relationship with someone other than you and she sits on you in bars, holds your hand and you touch her thighs??? Clearly she is not a 10 when it comes to trust, faithfulness and boundaries. You don't want to be involved with that. 2
Author LonelyHero Posted September 23, 2014 Author Posted September 23, 2014 So she's in a relationship with someone other than you and she sits on you in bars, holds your hand and you touch her thighs??? Clearly she is not a 10 when it comes to trust, faithfulness and boundaries. You don't want to be involved with that. Yes , i know this is so true and it seems so weird. As if her bf has friends in this city and someone saw us, we may have a problem. I don't think that she is evil and does all this stuff because she just wants to keep me close. I mean ,ok if i am not that important to her, why does all this happen. Maybe she is confused but all this does not really matter because i am leaving my country in 2 months All i wanted was to share my story. Thanks for replies
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