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When a girl goes alone to some guy


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So I have a crush on that girl, but we've never had sex because she says she has rules - not even kissing etc because she doesn't want a relationship. She has a crush on me either as we've been kissing etc, just not sex.

 

The problem is she doesn't wanna come over to my place. It's just that almost every out meeting has the same schema: 2-3h of talking, 2-3h of kissing, other things, and when I wanna move on she resists.

 

It would be ok, of course, I can wait, no problem with that, but there's the problem with her driving to her "friend" (as she told me, but he calls her all the time and probably he thinks about it in a different way) to another city 500km away for 2 days...alone. She tells me he's strange, he has his own world, he's a pussy etc, ok, great, but why would she meet him then?

 

I don't know what to think about it, and when I ask her, she doesn't see anything especially wrong with that, suggesting me we're not in a relationship.

 

What should I do about it?

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If she has been to his house before & is confident that they will be platonic, that may be why she is OK going there but is not OK coming to your house.

 

If you don't believe her & this is a deal breaker for your, move on.

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Why should you do anything about it?

Are you her daddy?

 

You can ask her, if he's a fun dude, and what kinda stuff they do, but, why would you think that you can do anything about it.

 

Anyway, it seems that youre stuck on sex, and if youre stuck on it, she'll be stuck on not giving it to you

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