Omega87 Posted September 20, 2014 Posted September 20, 2014 I met a girl at work the other day, she was new. We ended up chatting and going with some other co-workers to the bar, we hung out the whole night, ended up just the two of us at another bar drinking and making out til the wee hours, it was great! This might sound kind of lame for a 27 year old but I've never been in this situation before... I've been in a relationship for 6 and a half years and it just ended a month ago. I have met a few girls since my breakup but this one I find myself interested in. Unfortunately we were a bit drunk and didn't exchange numbers so I haven't been able to speak to her in about 3 or 4 days since the night, but ultimately we'll see each other at work again. I'm not worried about it being awkward, we actually had a really great time. But the more I read about dating the more I'm worried that I'll seem to eager if I just walked up and told her "I had a great time and I want to hang out again." How do I play it cool, while still pursuing this girl and making her aware that I want to see her again? I guess I have the typical insecurities running around in my mind like wondering if she's even interested... and also I'm worried I'd be jumping into something too fast, but I REALLY liked hanging with this girl... What should I do here?
TigerCub Posted September 20, 2014 Posted September 20, 2014 The girl made out with you for a good while - that's definitely a good sign. I think she has a hunch that you're into her. And it's safe to say she's into you too so now all you got to do is just be straight forward and ask her out on a date. make it specific like 'can I take you out to dinner next (pick a day)' or 'blank movie is opening next weekend, would you be interested in going with me' I mean ask her for a specific activity because saying something like 'I had a good time the other day can we hang out sometime?' might come off as you asking to just fool around (considering that you guys just made out the first time you hung out) - so she might thing you just want some action. but if you like her I'd suggest being upfront and asking her out on a real specific date (just to be sure she doesn't read it wrong). good luck!!
Author Omega87 Posted September 20, 2014 Author Posted September 20, 2014 Thanks! I think that is a wise move to suggest something specific. Hoping to see her tonight and we'll see how it goes .
Assasda Posted September 20, 2014 Posted September 20, 2014 I wouldnt suggest asking her just right off the bat when you see her. Talk to her a bit more at work and such. Let her know that (not verbally) that making out with her didnt faze you. Then it could all happen very organically - Listen to her, if she has a lot to say, and dont say much
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