She doesnt flirt with me because I'm not married????

[AtomZ]

Theres a woman that I know, and I'm kind of interested in taking her out, but not sure. She is the flirty type with certain guys she knows. I asked why she is so flirty with them and not other guys.

 

She replied...."Oh I just flirt with them like that because they are married and I know they cant do anything about it".

 

Has anyone else ever heard that or do any other women relate to that?

 

I'm single, so I guess she doesnt flirt with me because then she would have to reciprocate???? Does that make any sense???

[preraph]

Oh, yeah. And married women flirt more because they know they have the automatic "out" of being married. Of course, a woman who does that to a married man is playing with fire and I'm not really sure she isn't taking some of them up on it.

[Lernaean_Hydra]

Nah, it's not because they're unavaible and therefore "can't do anything about it". It's because she gets an ego boost out of being flirted with or even pursued by men who are already taken. There exists a certain type of woman who feels validated if she can catch the eye of a married man because it makes her feel special. Like she's so hot/funny/exciting that she's able to take his attention away from the one woman it belongs to: his wife.

 

She's not even worth a second thought my friend. Leave her alone so she can have fun with her married playmates . Because even if NONE of what I said mentioned in the above paragraph were true, any woman person who devotes their energies to flirtations in which they know will go NOWHERE, isn't looking for a meaningful relationship. Period.

[Tayken]

Theres a woman that I know, and I'm kind of interested in taking her out, but not sure. She is the flirty type with certain guys she knows. I asked why she is so flirty with them and not other guys.

 

She replied...."Oh I just flirt with them like that because they are married and I know they cant do anything about it".

 

Has anyone else ever heard that or do any other women relate to that?

 

I'm single, so I guess she doesnt flirt with me because then she would have to reciprocate???? Does that make any sense???

 

 

Yes, and there is a name for women like that....the sad part is, she will be willing to do things with them because it's her way of sticking it to their wives, and she getting a ego / self esteem boost.

 

I usually don't have respect for such women.

[Gloria25]

Boy, you sure know how to pick um...

 

How did you end up meeting this one? She sound like just another one of those flakey flakes we suspect you're meeting on FB and OLD.

 

You see, there's something you're doing to meet/attract these flakes. Probably you need to see if it's the venues you are frequenting...

 

But, lemme guess, you're gonna argue that your town is full of women like this - so your situation is hopeless?

[AtomZ]

All very good and informative posts on this topic!

[AtomZ]

Boy, you sure know how to pick um...

 

How did you end up meeting this one?

 

Shes in the social circle.

 

Shes not my type as far as a serious long term thing....but I'm single, and shes single, and I've tossed around the idea of just going out and having fun.

 

But I will back off. Funny thing though, who wants to bet she will start showing me more attention once she realizes I'm not paying any mind to her? lol

[WhatIsLove2014]

NE ohio? Like the Cleveland or Kent area? Or maybe one of the small towns around there...hmm idk those are pretty big metro areas but if you aren't in those cities, you may just have bad luck.

 

But sometimes people just attract bad people...addicts attract other addicts or dealers. You need to get the smell off of you, sir.

[AtomZ]

NE ohio? Like the Cleveland or Kent area? Or maybe one of the small towns around there...hmm idk those are pretty big metro areas but if you aren't in those cities, you may just have bad luck.

 

But sometimes people just attract bad people...addicts attract other addicts or dealers. You need to get the smell off of you, sir.

 

 

Theres a smell alright....the smell of living too close to Youngstown.

[whichwayisup]

Theres a woman that I know, and I'm kind of interested in taking her out, but not sure. She is the flirty type with certain guys she knows. I asked why she is so flirty with them and not other guys.

 

She replied...."Oh I just flirt with them like that because they are married and I know they cant do anything about it".

 

Has anyone else ever heard that or do any other women relate to that?

 

I'm single, so I guess she doesnt flirt with me because then she would have to reciprocate???? Does that make any sense???

 

Either she is a 'tease' and likes the power of flirting with a MM, knowing it won't go anywhere and thinks it's safe, and she's getting an ego feed out of it..Or she's a commitment phob and won't put herself out for single guys as she's scared to get close.

 

Either way, don't waste time on her.