WhatIsLove2014 Posted September 19, 2014 Posted September 19, 2014 Have you ever gotten an "excuse" to cancel a date that was real? As in you set up another date and that date actually happened? (I.e. it wasn't a blow off.) How often have you been in a situation where it seemed like a blow off but turned out not to be? If ever... Or did they all turn out to be blow offs?
preraph Posted September 20, 2014 Posted September 20, 2014 Sure, it can be a real excuse. But if it's a first or second date, the odds go down that there's really a good excuse. I mean, who died? Accepting any old excuse is bad because some people are just disorganized fickle flakes. And if whoever cancels doesn't recontact you to reschedule, that's probably a blowoff or very bad form. 1
Author WhatIsLove2014 Posted September 20, 2014 Author Posted September 20, 2014 Ok that makes sense. I've been dating this guy almost 2 mos and he cancelled our date...said he wasn't feeling good and my mind instantly thought about all the blow off and disappearing guys posts here N freaked me out.
LostOnes05 Posted September 20, 2014 Posted September 20, 2014 Basically all of cancelled dates that I have experienced in the last year since I started dating again have been blow offs. It sucks but what can you do. Did he have the flu or something? That's probably the only way I'd miss a date if I was sick. Check for other signs of disinterest and you'll get your answer...In fact, I called out a girl recently on being a flake and wasting my time (in a nice way of course). But there is a possibility that he was actually sick. 1
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